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Enzo at 4

2011-01-07T10:16:00.002+08:00

Enzo is my favorite boy in the world. He'll be 4 years old in a week.

Enzo has started schooling last June in the same school as her Ate Zia. He is in Junior Casa, Zia is in Senior Casa. Enzo used to be quiet and doesn't socialize as much. Since his school, he talks a lot and even smiles a lot.

He mimics what her Ate Zia does, so some of his skills are advanced for his age. He reads very well, and he enjoys reading books. He uses my iPhone a lot, can operate my computers to view pictures and play its music playlist, can type and spell letters using Word. His writing and coloring still needs practice but he keeps doing them. He sings well, in fact, he memorizes the songs he likes to listen and sings with them when they are being played. He is also your typical young boy, sobrang kulit at magulo. He runs around, jumps from the top of the couch, climbs the tree in the lawn so he also gets the usual bumps and bruises. Hopefully, no major accidents in the future.

He is usually kulang sa pansin. If I'm playing with Zia or talking with Zia, he'll tell me "How about Enzo?" His Ate Zia would usually concede and give way to his little brother. They would have occasional fights but eventually would share their toys, their books, the iPhone, the computer even me.

Iza's Baptism

2010-10-12T11:35:00.007+08:00

My youngest child is a Catholic!

Iza had her baptism last October 9, 2010 at St. Andrew Parish in Makati. The original schedule was 10am, so the whole family woke up early in Las Pinas for the big event. The plan was to use 2 vehicles - one car with me, Zia, Enzo and Lalay (one of the helpers), the other car would ride Judith, Iza and Cris (another helper). Then disaster struck! The traffic in Alabang was crawling in a snail pace figuratively! So Judith called Jing in Makati to inform the parish office that we will not reach the church on time. We were informed that our schedule has been moved to 11:30am.

I reached Makati at 10am but learning that our schedule has been moved, I proceeded to the reception place, Hae Song restaurant, to inform them of the change of time. This is where the second disaster happened. I was told by one of the restaurant personnel that allegedly somebody called them up and moved our reception from October 9 to October 15! I demanded that they show proof regarding this caller because only Judith and I communicated with them all throughout the preparations. They were apologetic and promised that they would do the necessary adjustments since the lunch will start at 12noon instead of the original 11am.

When we arrived at the church, Judith was already there. Also present were Mommy, Daddy, Tita Nilds, Candee and Gian, Joy, Mek, Kyla and Miguel, Jojo. Lare, Alicia and Zack, Jing and Noli plus the ninongs.

Iza's godfathers are Dr. Arnel Tolentino and Dr. Jose Tecson, both close friend of ours from medical school and my fraternity brothers, Ryan Li, Judith's cousin who is now based in Taiwan, and Mek.

Iza's godmothers are Jing, Jay and Drs. Ina Crisologo and Deb Palmes. Ina however was in Batangas for an out-of-town lecture and Deb is based in Aklan.

Because we were quite early now for our schedule, we had picture taking done inside the church. Through out this time, Iza was very cooperative. She was smiling to those who would want to talk to her, and would just be quiet if left alone, not as grumpy as our previous baptism experiences from Zia and Enzo. The 2 kids were just busy playing in the church with their cousins until the ceremony started.

The baptism ceremony was short, solemn and direct to the point. The presiding priest was Fr. Jeffrey Jamias. The church provided us with booklets and candles to be used throughout the ceremony. Iza was just quiet and awake during the sacrament. She was wearing the same white clothes her Ate Zia and Kuya Enzo wore during their baptisms. And to top it all, I was baptized in the same church 39 years ago!

After the ceremony, we proceeded to Hae Song. It is an Asian fusion restaurant located in Makati as well. Judith and I found the place to be ideal for the reception, they offer mostly Korean and Japanese cuisine. When we tried their buffet we found it very good, specially the price. When we talked with its owner, she was very accommodating with our requests.

When we reached the place, some of our friends were already there. Our friends and classmates from med school - Kim, Sonia, Mike, Charms and her husband Jay seated together with Eye Republic colleagues Rainier, Happy and Ken.

Judith arranged a surprise treat to Mommy since she just celebrated her birthday, so she invited Mommy's old friends and most of them came to celebrate with us. Mommy had a great time as well.

It was quite tiring juggling your time talking with friends, eating, taking pictures, and looking after Zia's and Enzo's endless playing inside the restaurant. But it was all worth it. After the disasters, the reception ended well. We thought the day will end well but our day was still far from over. (I will post another blog entry for that)

Just like me, Judith and the godparents, our role for Iza just started. Hopefully we can guide her to be a good Christian when she grows up.

To see the pictures of the baptism, please click HERE.

Zia at 5

2010-10-05T15:39:00.003+08:00

My eldest daughter is growing so fast. At present she's enrolled still at Montessori de Manila as a Senior Casa student. Last week, Judith and I received her report card and we talked with her teacher, Teacher Asian.

Zia according to her teacher is a very good student. She finishes her tasks well and right, she is an advanced reader for her age and she enjoys singing and dancing. However she still often wanders around specially if her tasks bore her.

She has finished her occupational therapy sessions last May, and her recent assessment from her developmental pediatrician showed her development stage is at par with her age.

She enjoys dancing, she likes to listen to my music collections and would play them to my computer and phone over and over. Early this year, her favorites were Abba songs, then Michael Jackson songs, then she discovered MTV, and would dance to the pop songs in front of the TV. At present, she enjoys Usher, Justin Bieber, Super Junior, Lady Gaga, Katy Perry and other danceable tunes of other artists.

Because we have exposed her to different books, she enjoys reading very much. She writes better now and she colors her books adequately. She can count in English, Tagalog and Spanish. She has a very sweet laugh but she does her usual drama once in a while.

Enzo is her sparring partner, they have a very good relationship. She is very accommodating to him, very Ate. Sometime she manipulates him to get what she wants, but she is very giving.

Since Iza was born, Zia and Enzo are sleeping with me in a different room with Judith and Iza. Zia is very Ate as well with Iza. Once Iza cries, she calls at once one of the yayas or either me or Judith. She always do gigil with her and kisses her all the time.

Her allergy still nags her almost daily. Her rhinitis makes her sneeze every morning, sometimes eczema is present on the back of her knees and her neck. She had 2 asthma attacks this year.

She bikes during afternoons or play in the lawn with Enzo. She even climbs a small tree in our lawn. At night, before we sleep in our room, Zia, Enzo and me have a routine wherein after they finish their milk and toothbrush, we play horsey, hayan na si Papa, and tickletime. Once the lights are off, we will watch their favorite video in my phone then it's storytime! I tell them short stories, usually made-up stories with simple lessons for them to remember. We've been doing these for the past 3 months, since Iza was born, and I've never felt so close to my 2 older kids. I can't wait til Iza joins our party!

News Flash!

2010-07-08T16:05:00.001+08:00

I found this in the internet.

Iza

2010-07-07T10:47:00.003+08:00

It's been a year since my last post, many events have passed, but none as special as last week's. My third child was born.

Her name is Teresa Czarina G. Perez or Iza for short. Her name is derived from her Lola Goody and my Tatay's name. Tatay would have wanted a Cesar III, but now I have 3 kids with Cesar in their names.

She was born July 1, 2010 at 1:11PM. It was a Thursday, and our usual Thursday begins when Judith goes to Perpetual Help College of Medicine to attend its weekly conferences, I was sending off Zia and Enzo to school. After bringing the kids at Montessori at 9:30AM, I received a call from Judith, she told me that we are going now to PGH, she is on labor and 5cms dilated already when examined by our kumare Janice.

I called my clinic to cancel all my appointments, then fetched Judith and off to PGH. We arrived shortly after 1030AM. She was sent directly to the Labor Room, and was examined by the Ob Redidents. It was very comforting to know that Judith's attending MD, Dra. Llave is already in the hospital, attending to another patient. All the necessary stuff was done and the next part is the waiting time. Epidural anesthesia was also given to Judith by Dr. Ting Odi. After more than an hour, she was then transferred to the Delivery Room.

Judith showed tremendous strength. It was very evident that she was in great pain but she endured all of it. Inside the Delivery Room, after more that 7 tries, Iza came out! Again, a mixture of emotions - happiness, concern, fear, relief - overwhelm me. Here's my third child, my bunso! And she looks just fine.

We were transferred to our private room at around 4PM, Iza was just wearing temporary clothes since we did not bring any bags. Candy, Ogie and Joy visited us, along with Kim on the first day. Daddy, Jing, Tita Nilds and Ryan visited us before we were discharged.

Happiness and a new chapter begins.

Washington DC 2009

2009-08-18T17:31:00.004+08:00

Judith was quite excited on our trip going to Washington DC. After meeting my relatives in New York, it is now her chance to meet her relatives in US.

Before leaving New York, Tito Bobs bought us food from NY Chinatown for baon in our bus trip. As much as we would like to bring all the food, we brought fried rice, chicken and pork asado. We ate some during the bus stop over somewhere in Maryland.

After a 4 hour bus ride, we reached DC and just like in Boston and New York, once we alighted from our vehicles, our relatives are already there, ready to welcome us. Judith's cousin Karen and her husband Bodgie helped us with our bags then asked us where do we want to go first. Our answer: SHOPPING!

Our schedule in DC is quite limited. Karen and Bodgie have been lobbying for a longer stay for us, but we can only stay there for 4 days and 3 nights. Judith and Karen have not seen each other for nearly 4 years. They are quite close, like sisters, practically growing up together in Pinas. So after leaving our bags in their home, we went to go shopping. Bodgie drove us to an Outlet Store in Leesburg, an hour's drive from their home. We reached the place at around 6PM, we left when they closed at 9pm.

Judith and I were surprised how low the prices on these stores. The stores are branded stores but the prices are really low. Judith's smile never left her face, as if she hit jackpot in a casino. She knows the range of prices in Manila, so the items she bought (shoes and bags) were really priced better compared to those back home. After a 4 hour bus trip, 3 hours of shopping and 2 hours of car trip in DC, we were all hungry and tired going home. We were planning to buy food then eat back home, but, as if a bad joke was done to us, ALL food places that we visited was closed or closing. So, when we reached home, we ended up eating the food Tito Bobs gave us from New York! Buti na lang marami talagang pinadala si Tito, masarap pa. Tawanan na lang kami habang kumakain.

The next day was TOUR day. We went to the National Mall of DC wherein we visited the National Air and Space Museum, National Gallery of Art, the National Museum of Natural History, the Hirshhorn Museum, the Washington Monument, Lincoln Memorial, Vietnam Veterans Memorial, World War II Veterans Memorial, Jefferson Memorial, the Capitol and the White House. Pictures galore on every stop, as we were accompanied by Karen and Bodgie. The National Mall was really a tourist haven for all the famous landmarks of DC. As usual, Judith and I enjoyed the artworks from the museums. The Lincoln and Jefferson Memorials were magnificent structures. The Washington Monument was very imposing, along with the Capitol Building, but the White House is really an awe-inspiring building.

We capped the day by going to the nearby National Harbor, a newly built marina where shopping and dining places are present. We were feted by Tita Raquel (Karen's mom) to a hearty Chinese banquet. The servers on that restaurant were quite queer-looking since most of them were chong-sam wearing caucasians! However, the food and the service were excellent. Then we watched an open-air jazz concert nearby. Coolness! Upon reaching Bodgie's home, we played some Wii Sports games in their den.

The next day was again shopping day. We went back to Leesburg for another round of Outlet Store buying spree. This time, the whole day was alloted for shopping alone. We bought stuff for the kids and for pasalubongs back home. We ate dinner in a Cheesecake Factory restaurant, again for free courtesy of the Dioquinos.

In our last day in DC, we were a bit sad because we will leave Karen, Bodgie and specially Roen, their cute daughter. During our stay, she would love to show us her stuff, her shoulder bags, her toys, her make-up, her toy car, her shoes, her room, etc. She reminds us of Zia. There was an instance when we were talking with Zia via Skype, Roen was smiling when she heard Zia singing one of her favorite songs as well. Actually, Zia has many similarities with Roen, hopefully someday they would be as close as their mothers.

We left DC with many smiles, many shopping goodies and many good memories.

To view our pictures, please click HERE

New York 2009

2009-08-10T17:08:00.004+08:00

We left Boston quite in a nick of time!

I booked a bus trip from Boston to New York online. BoltBus is the name of the bus line. Our schedule was to leave Boston South Station in 5PM. We never realized that the South Station was a large station with many gates and terminals. All along I assumed that the bus will pick us up outside the station, so JR and Rainier dropped me and Judith outside South Station. Lucky for us, Rainier thought otherwise, he checked inside the station and found the right gate for us to board. Judith immediately ran 3 floors up the terminal and found the bus dispatcher, pleaded him to wait for us before the bus leaves. As we boarded the bus, it began to move out. Whew!

The bus ride was quite nice. The bus has a wifi connection, it has electrical plugs and the leg space is roomy. We enjoyed the scenery from Boston to New York. We even talked to the kids using Skype inside the bus. As we see the skyline of New York coming near, our excitement also grows bigger.

We reached New York City at around 9PM. The moment we alighted from the bus, I already saw Tito Bobs and Tita Josie waiting for us in the station. Again, it was very gratifying to see familiar faces especially relatives in a big new city. We rode a cab going to Tito Bobs' apartment in Manhattan, and enjoyed the night scenes in the street. Tito Bobs' place is like an apartment with a DVD library. His collection of movies, musicals, concerts and other videos are things to envy. The apartment reminded me of my Lola Taba's place (Nanay's, Tito Bobs' and Tita Josie's mother) in Makati when I was still a small boy. The arrangements of the appliances, its designs and its stuff look very familiar. The best part of the apartment is the view outside the bedroom - the Empire State Building and the Chrysler Building. Of course, once we set foot in his apartment, Tito Bobs (and Tita Josie) began to be our lifeline. Tita immediately gave us our subway ticket pass good for a week, Tito Bobs went to shop in the nearby grocery for food and other stuff - all for me and Judith. We talked and talked until the wee hours of the morning.

Our first day in New York began with a Sunday Mass in the Church of the Holy Conception just across the street where Tito lives. After the mass, we ate our breakfast in a diner nearby called Ambrosia. Well, the food is quite heavenly-filling and a good preparation for our long day ahead. When Tito and Tita asked us what do we want to see first, we opted to go to the Metropolitan Museum of Art. So we rode our first subway ride with them and walked until we reached the museum.

The Met is a huge place! Tito bought us the tickets and we REALLY enjoyed our visit there. The Egyptian exhibit is a grand one (as if we were in the pyramids), the European sculptures were very exquisite, the African and the Latin American artworks are very exotic, very mysterious, but the paintings on the second floor are our favorites. Works of Van Gogh, Monet, Degas, Manet, Picasso, etc., were there for us to wonder! We took lots of pictures and bought souvenirs (actually even the souvenirs were bought by Tito so we did not spend a thing there). Me and Judith were worrying for Tito and Tita because the two of us are prepared for such long walks, and they might be tired with us, but to our surprise, we were tiring ahead of them.

After almost 4 hours in the museum, we went to Times Square to buy Broadway show tickets. As we walk towards Broadway Ave we saw parts of the street closed for vehicles to accommodate people, mainly tourists. We took pictures of people, buildings, interesting sights, etc. As we reached the ticket place, Tito Bobs again bought us tickets to watch Mamma Mia. Because the play is still 3 hours away, we decided to go to the Empire State Building. We had snacks first at a nearby McDonald's again courtesy of Tito. Upon entering the Empire State, we found that the queue was long but once we were on the viewdeck of the famous building, the scenery was breath-taking. Well, actually breath-taking for me since I am afraid of heights. Even inside the building, we were all amazed of the classy designs from the walls to the floors. Of course, the viewdeck was paid by Tito Bobs.

We reached the theater just in time, and Tita, me and Judith enjoyed the play. Judith was dancing at the end of the show to her delight. We walked back again to Times Square to see this famous place at night time. It was truly a plaza with a nightly light show. A sight to behold and a grand way to finish the night.

The next day, after breakfast, we rode the Circle Line. It is a tourist ship which routes the whole Manhattan Island. Along the waters, we saw the Statue of Liberty, Ellis Island, Brooklyn Bridge and the other famous and interesting sights of New York. There is a tour guide annotating some facts about the famous places and it is quite informative. Tita Josie, Tito Bobs and his friend Keith were with us during this 3 hour trip. Afterwards, Tita Josie accompanied us going to Queens. We rode the train to reach her son and my cousin, Chris' home. Chris is also a doctor, his wife Iris is also an ophthalmologist. They have a son, Ryan, who is as old as Enzo.

The whole Arboleda clan had a mini reunion in Chris' house because of us. My uncles Francis and Lito were there. Tito Francis came with his son Wesley. Tito Lito's family was complete - Tita Lorna and the kids (well, big kids) Matthew and Mike. We had dinner together and watched the Baseball Home Run Derby. My cousins except for Chris, are all huge, they probably outweigh me at least 50 pounds. But being with them, having fun with them makes me realize how lucky I am to have relatives like them. After the mini-party, Tito Francis even drove us to his home, maybe an hour away from Chris' place. Tito and Wesley were very comfortable during the car trip, but Judith and I were so cold since Tito's car is a convertible, running in a highway at 10PM. Because of the trip in his home, we were able to see my other cousins, Jeffrey and Tiffany, who missed the get-together. After one round of beer, Tito Francis brought us back to Chris' place.

The next day, me, Judith and Tita Josie were fetched by Tito Francis to go to upstate New York to visit Tita Madre in Maryknoll Sisters, Ossening, New York. Tita Madre was diagnosed to have lung cancer last year, and since then, no relatives have visited her yet. After an hour and a half drive, we reached the place, and we were so amazed how beautiful the compound of the Maryknoll lay people. Once we reached the building of Tita Madre, she accompanied us to their dining area and she gave us a feast for our lunch. She just finished a tiring diagnostic exam during the morning but she was so excited and enthusiastically introduced us to ALL people in the building. She even gave us a tour of the place, showed us their museum, their big chapel and their beautiful courtyard with plenty of flowers. She was so thrilled to see us that she was so tired when we reached her room. Of course I was so thrilled as well to see her up and about than languishing in a hospital bed. I gave her some advises regarding her condition, got some medical information from her as well so that I can ask my doctor friends who are pulmonologists and oncologists. As much as we would want to stay more and longer to Tita, we still have to go back to Manhattan, so in the mid afternoon, we bade Tita farewell. Before we reached Manhattan, Tito Francis passed by Coney Island. It is one of the popular beaches in NY. After some pictures, we retired to Tito Bobs place. Judith cooked dinner for all of us to finish the memorable day.

The next day Tito Bobs and Tita Josie let us see NY for ourselves. Of course, before we left the apartment, they even gave us pocket money! Judith and I went to the Central Park, the Chrysler Building, Macy's, the Apple Store, Rockefeller Plaza, St. Patrick's Cathedral, the Philippine Consulate Office, the Disney Store, the NBA Store, and took pictures and shopped for pasalubongs. We returned to Tito's place just to change clothes because we were off again to see my friends from high school. They booked a Japanese restaurant near downtown called Megu, and we (Yeng, Leslie and Jude) had a grand time talking about the younger years. Of course, it was a free treat again for us. Another great way to end the day.

After breakfast the next day, we packed our bags and Tito Bobs accompanied us for our bus trip going to Washington DC.

Next stop: Washington DC!

For more pictures, click HERE.

Boston 2009

2009-08-04T16:13:00.002+08:00

My wife Judith and I went on a trip last July to the United States for the first time. The long plane trip was also our first time, and it was really not a comfortable experience. The plane of Northwest Airlines is cozy, the food is great, our seat mate (a Canadian pastor) was very accommodating - but the mere fact that we were seated for almost half a day is very unnerving. After a nearly 20 hour flight (with stops in Nagoya, Japan and Detroit, USA), we reached Boston, MA last July 6.

When we arrived in Logan airport, we were expecting to ride a taxi going to the home of our hosts, but to our surprise, they were actually waiting for us in the airport already! Our welcoming committee - Rainier Covar, my partner in Eye Republic Clinic and his brother-in-law JR Lacson (who is also my fraternity brod) - were already there. It was so gratifying to see familiar faces in a practically new and unfamiliar world.

It was the start of the Lacson family's very generous accommodation to me and Judith. JR and Rainier toured us immediately to downtown Boston coming from the airport. We arrived around 5 in the afternoon, the weather was great, so we had a nice introductory tour of Bean City riding in an Audi Quattro Q7 SUV. Boston is calming, very urban yet homy. The Lacson residence is in Lexington, a suburban area of Boston. Once we reached their home, we met Rainier's sister, Ron (who is also a sorority sis) and her 2 charming sons Eddie and Roger. They gave us their spacious guest room all for ourselves. Once we were settled, they treated us with a steak and lobster meal for our first dinner. So far, we were enjoying our vacation, big time!

The main reason for our trip in Boston is to attend the World Glaucoma Congress. It is a biannual convention of glaucoma societies all over the world, and as a member of the Philippine Glaucoma Society, I decided to attend the event, having attended the convention 2 years ago in Singapore. Since the start of the convention was July 8th, we were still free on July 7th the whole day, and Ron toured us the whole day in Boston. She gave us our week pass tickets for the Boston T, treated us for lunch in a Japanese buffet restaurant, showed us the good sights in downtown Boston riding in her Benz E class car. We went to the Harvard Square and marveled at the serene campus of the school grounds. Once we reached their home, we were again full in our stomachs with their sumptuous meal specially prepared for us.

We were also adjusting to the extended daytime. We were accustomed to the 6pm night time back home, but since it is summer time in the States, night time starts at around 9pm. We found it also very amusing to see caucasians taking advantage of the sun on every chance they can have. We see them on the street or on the park sitting or reading or eating under the sun. Of course, me and Judith will go to the shade every time there's an opportunity.

The glaucoma convention was great. I attended most of the symposia and lectures, learned new ideas, took down notes, took pictures and recorded videos. In the interim, Rainier and I would meet Judith in the mall near the convention area, and again do sight seeing. Judith had this fixation to the death of Michael Jackson that she has read most of the magazines featuring him to pass the time waiting for us. She was also able to meet one of her childhood friend who was now based in Boston with her family.

Prominent places we saw in Boston: Fenway Park, Faneuil Hall, Quincy Market, Harvard Campus, Brigham-Young Hospital, the Apple Store, the TD Garden and most of the Freedom Trail via the Boston Duck Tour. I enjoyed the Fenway Park Tour being a sports fan. We were able to go down the batting area and all the way up to the Green Monster wall - Judith even met a young Fil-Am woman working in the Tour; we got some souvenirs from the park as well. The Duck Tour was also great. We rode an amphibious vehicle which traversed the downtown streets of Boston to tour the tourist spots, then transformed into a boat to see the tourist spots while on the Charles River! Kung may ganyan na sasakyan sa Pinas, ok lang ang baha.

One thing we really miss back home are the kids. This is the first time that we were away from them for this long. So before we left, I have set-up 2 computers to access Skype, a computer program wherein users of this program can communicate via the internet for free, with video. I have taught our helpers back home how to use the computers, so the longing to see our kids were lessened whenever we see and talk to the kids. They were excited to see and talk to us, and they believe that we were not really away and we're just inside the computers!

Of course, as the saying goes, all good things come to an end. Our last day in Boston was July 11. Rainier and I still attended the morning sessions of the convention, then the Lacson family again feted us with a despedida Brazilian steakhouse late lunch. We barely reached the bus station in time going to New York. But with help from JR and Rainier, we made it to our bus, thus ending our wonderful stay in Boston. I mentioned to JR that the best part of our Boston trip is not the sights of the place but the hospitality we received from their family. We will be eternally grateful and will cherish them always and hopefully we can return the favor in the near future.

Next stop: New York!

To view pictures of our Boston Trip, please click HERE.

38

2009-06-23T07:27:00.002+08:00

I'm 38 and I'm one happy fellow.

I don't feel like 38 though, maybe it's just denial. But the happiness I feel is real, no denying about it.

I am a father of 2 wonderful kids, a husband of an even greater wife, a son of two ever-proud parents, a brother of 4 helpful siblings, a doctor for my needy patients and a friend to many individuals.

I have a car, I live on my father's house, I work in my clinic, I can eat my favorite food, I can wear my preferred clothes, I use my different gadgets, I am relatively healthy, I can travel to far places, I belong to different organizations and groups, and I am in a position to help people.

So, what's up for me?

Many things I guess. I still have lots of plans, things to do, things to finish, things to dream about.

Hopefully, for this coming year I can still share my happiness to all I know and care about.

Tagaytay 2009

2009-06-12T12:52:00.003+08:00

Every Holy Week time, Judith's family makes it a point to have a reunion, sort of an annual tradition. So Last April, we went to Tagaytay to spend an overnight stay in a rented house. Joy found a great house just right for 3 families - Judith's, Joy's and Candee's.

Zia and Enzo enjoyed the change of scenery and the cold weather, being in the middle of summer. They played with their cousins, and the adults had their soul batteries recharged.

Easter morning, we went to the Tagaytay Church to hear mass, then the kids had an easter egg hunt. Great fun for everybody.

For more pictures, please click HERE

Enzo's first hospital stay

2009-06-10T11:14:00.005+08:00

Last February 6, 2009, Enzo was admitted in Las Pinas Doctors Hospital. It was his first time to be admitted since he was born. He was diagnosed to have mild dehydration due to acute gastro-entiritis.

Sometimes, being a doctor can be disadvantageous specially if you are a parent doctor. The first day Enzo had diarrhea, Judith and I were already entertaining so many possible diseases and worst scenarios in our mind. Between the two of us, Judith is more of the worrier, maybe one of the roles of mothers is too worry all the time. Based on Enzo's signs and symptoms, 2 doctors - graduates of UP College of Medicine and of Philippine General Hospital, are having difficulty treating their patient because the patient is their son.

Eventually, we decided that Enzo need intravenous fluids and further tests, thus we went to the hospital early part of the morning that day. Our attending pediatrician is of course our friend, Dr. Ces Alinea. In the ER, our main concern is the insertion of the IV on Enzo. We know how strong and likot he is, but the insertion was just one try. The hospital is quite familiar to us because Judith is a practicing doctor there. We chose it over PGH because of its proximity to our home.

Enzo was quite grumpy in his room during the early hours, he would try to remove the heavily bandaged IV line on his arm. Eventually, he got what we were hoping since the previous night - a peaceful sleep. He was so masungit and crying the previous night because his sleep would be interrupted by his diarrhea and vomitting spells. So when we were in the hospital, he just slept the whole time. In fact, when he woke late in the afternoon, he was eating some bread and cakes, and walking around his bed na. So at around 10PM we were already heading home the same day.

Stress galore but eventually, seeing your child smiling and well - priceless!

Avilon Zoo

2009-06-09T13:28:00.004+08:00

Zia and Enzo enjoyed their visit at Ark of Avilon Zoo that we decided to go to their main site, the Avilon Zoo in Montalban, Rizal.

I went to its website and downloaded the map going there. Since May 1 was a holiday, we thought it would be perfect to go there. It was quite a long trip from Las Pinas, nearly 2 hours of travel. We were quite worried before the trip because the weather was quite rainy, but eventually the weather cooperated. Locating the place is not that easy, and the road going there is still rough and muddy. Once we get there, it turned out well.

The place is 8 hectares, so one will have a whole morning or whole afternoon to see all the animals. We opted to hire a tour guide, and it was worth it since the guide had a systematic route and stories on each segment of the tour. It is a walking tour so it is quite tiring. There is a segment for reptiles where different crocodiles can be seen. They also breed crocs there. For bird watchers, this is a good place to be. Their collection of birds are great. There is an area for big birds - flamingos, peafowls, all kinds of parrots, birds of paradise, birds of prey; an area for small birds - colorful, singing ones. There is an area for apes, a spacious area for wild cats - tigers, leopards, jaguars, lions, lynx, pumas; for hyenas, wolves, bears, tapirs. There is a snake area, a lizard area, an amphibian area, horses, ostriches, deers, llamas, rodents, big fishes - ANG DAMI TALAGA!

Enzo was so tired during the tour that he even took a nap during the tour, when he woke up, played with the animals again. Zia was so enthusiastic, she was so active throughout the tour. She played with the orangutan, took pictures with an owl and an eagle on her arm. The guide mentioned that the zoo is still developing some of its parts. They are preparing provisions for elephants and giraffes. It is one of the better zoos I have visited. The trip was so worth it. The kids have a grand time. We had a great time.

For pictures, please click HERE.

Ark of Avilon Zoo

2009-06-09T11:40:00.004+08:00

Zia and Enzo love to watch animals on TV. Even on books, they would identify the names of the animals and the sound they make. As seen from my previous post here in this blog, Zia uses one application in the iPhone to identify animals and listen to its sound.

So when an opportunity comes for us to visit a zoo, we always accompany the kids for these animals. We have gone in Tagaytay a few months back, in the Residents Inn, but the animals were not as interesting, and they all look cramped.

Judith then eventually booked us to go to Ark of Avilon Zoo, located near the Tiendesitas complex in Pasig. For P250 all-day entrance, we had a great time mingling with the animals. On the ground floor, there were spacious cages for the wild cats - a white sumatran tiger, lions, panthers, leopards etc. There was also a large koi aquarium where Zia and Enzo enjoyed feeding the fishes. Some lizards and reptiles can be seen as well. On the far side of the ground floor, we had some photo shoot with the orangutan and some birds. Zia enjoyed touching the ape and the birds, di siya natakot. On the second floor, giant aquariums can be seen and different fowls and birds. There is also a feeding area for rabbits where Zia had a grand time.

For pictures of our trip in the ark, click HERE

Coron, Palawan 2009

2009-06-09T11:03:00.003+08:00

The Philippine Glaucoma Society held its planning session in Coron, Busuanga, Palawan last March 5-7, 2009. It was the first time I have visited Palawan, and it is really a beautiful place.

The plane trip from Manila to Busuanga was approximately 45 minutes. Busuanga has its own new airport. This place is located North of Palawan, quite far from the main city of Puerto Prinsesa. Because of its rich diving sites, it has become one of the popular tourist spots in the country. From the airport, our group was fetched to be billeted to a resort. Most of the roads are still not cemented but numerous construction areas denote progress on this islands.

The places to visit there are the picturesque coral islands offshore, the crystalline waters of the different lakes and the different dive sites. I was able to dip to a saltwater hot springs, quite an experience. We also went up to hilltop wherein a giant cross is located, all hundreds of steps along the way.

Coron is also near the Calauit Animal Sanctuary, wherein animals imported from Africa were put by an influential politician, to be his private zoo. Some of our group went there but I did not go anymore. I miss my kids and my wife. Maybe someday, we will go there as a group.

Enzo's second birthday and Manila Ocean Park

2009-06-09T08:08:00.005+08:00

Enzo is growing fast! He is a very active boy. He doesn't smile much as his Ate Zia, but he is more excitable. He has this special kandirit, wherein he will do a hopping action on one foot, with hands outstretched and facial expression of excitement every time he sees a favorite TV show, or hears a favorite tune or when I or Judith arrive from work. Aside from these, he runs faster than Zia when she was at his age. Of course, he also mimics his Ate Zia a lot. He wants to be involved when Zia is involved. He has this knack of pulling one's hand, using all of his weight, to force him/her to go with him when he wants to go or do somewhere or something. His favorite activity at home is jumping endlessly on bed at nighttime. He knows how to count already, knows basic colors, knows the alphabet, even some numbers, planets and months of the year. Saka mas nagiging kamukha ko na siya. Pati paghilik at pagsasalita pag natutulog, kuha rin niya.

We celebrated his second birthday at home. On a cloudy January 17 morning, we gave Enzo a very subdued birthday celebration. Judith prepared some balloons and a birthday cake. He received a toy Diego as a gift. Even Zia was excited for her brother, so excited to the point that she wants to blow the candles in the cake. We really decided that we will not hold a grand party for him, Judith and I decided that instead of a party, we went to the Manila Ocean Park instead, the new big aquarium center at the back of Quirino Grand Stand in Luneta.

Enzo and Zia can identify animals. They love watching TV shows with all sort of animals. So once we got good feedback with the Ocean Park, the whole family went there a week after Enzo's birthday. The place is quite big, it was taunted to be as good if not better than the other aquariums in Hong Kong and Singapore among other places. In terms of diversity of fishes and other marine animals, the Manila Ocean Park is quite astounding. Both Enzo and Zia were so enthralled in seeing the sharks, the rays, the eels, the corals, the fresh water fishes, the salt water fishes, etc.

The aquariums were enormous and were designed very well so the viewing of the animals are maximal. The place is designed in such a way that a mall and restaurants are incorporated within the system. We stayed there for the whole morning, and even some months after our visit there, Enzo and Zia still remember their visit there.

To see the pictures of our visit there, please click this link HERE.

Zia's first school

2009-06-09T06:02:00.003+08:00

Last November 2008, Zia's developmental pediatrician has cleared her to enroll on a preparatory school. Her doctor has noted improvements on Zia's development, although there are still points to be improved. The speech and occupational therapy have to continue but we were advised that regular school can proceed. Judith and I scouted schools in BF Paranaque, looking for a school ideal for her speech condition, near our home, near the therapy center and of course not too expensive. After trimming the number to three potential schools, we eventually picked Child's Home School. Judith was very picky - she looked at the size of the rooms, the number of children per class, the schools where the teachers graduated, etc, etc.

Zia's class would be from November 2008 to March 2009. Her class was in the morning, from Monday to Friday. Seeing her in a school uniform for the first time is a sight to behold. It's a mixed feeling of glee - "my daughter is so cute" - and of gloom - "I'm getting old, my baby is now in school." Zia was enjoying her class. She was always excited when she was preparing going to school. Occasionally, she was accompanied by her Ate Cris to school, to be brought there by Manong Archie. After school, she would eagerly read her books and practice homeworks. Her speech has improved significantly. She has consistently expressed her feelings and sentiments, unlike a few months back wherein tantrums would be frequent because she cannot communicate to us well.

Of course, with school works come school activities that include family activities. By December 2008, Zia was excitedly practicing her Christmas class number. It was a dance number to the tune of Little Drummer Boy, with a costume of Little Santa. So when her school Christmas party came, all of us were there, happily cheering Zia and her classmates for their dance number. It was a cute number. Zia was dancing with her classmates, although sometimes, she has her own choreography different from her routine. Everybody enjoyed the party afterwards.

The other main school activity was the graduation. Again, some musical numbers were prepared. This time, Zia's class performed "I'm a Believer" from the Shrek soundtrack. Zia did another good dance performance. Her Ate Cris modified her costume which made her outfit better-looking. The other musical numbers were very entertaining as well. However, as her school was ending, Judith and I were deliberating wherein we will continue Zia to Child's Home. After balancing the pros and cons, we decided to enroll her to Montessori de Manila next school year.

Macau 2009

2009-06-04T14:50:00.003+08:00

My christmas gift to Judith was a vacation trip in Macau. She deserves all the credit being a very good mother to Zia and Enzo, and keeping our house a good home for all of us.

So after the parties have finished, we flew first day of January, 2009. We stayed in the very magnificent Venetian-Macau Hotel, believed to be one of the biggest hotel complexes in the world. Macau is the equivalent of Las Vegas here in Asia. Numerous casinos and hotels are scattered throughout the small colony, and our hotel is the biggest of its kind. The hotel has the biggest casino land area I have ever seen. Maybe at least 10 basketball court-wide are the sizes of the casinos, and all of them are full of customers! Within the confines of the hotel is a shopping complex, elegantly located with a man-made river where gondolas travel to and fro. The ceiling is even painted with sunny, cloudy skies, giving the illusion of eternal daytime. The artwork in the hotel lobby is a sight to behold, and the hotel room exudes class in every aspect.

The sites in Macau are also good for tourists like us. Being a Portuguese colony before, this has aggregated to the Chinese culture beautifully, making its sights truly unique. We visited old piazzas, old temples, museums and different places of eating. The most famous landmark there is the Ruins of St. Paul Church, and one of the most popular food is their egg tart.

Travelling with Judith is such joy. Kahit lakad lang kami ng lakad, ok lang sa kanya. Siyempre, magkasundo pa kami sa food so kahit saan kami kumain ok lang. Kapag nasa ibang lugar kasi kami, mas gusto naming kumain ng mga local food kesa doon sa mga fastfood. Kahit hindi kami maintindihan ng mga tao doon, ok lang kami.

Na-miss lang namin ang mga bata. Apat na araw lang kaming nawala pero parang ang tagal-tagal na naming di sila kasama. Pag medyo mga 6 or 7 years na sila, isasama na namin sila sa mga biyahe namin.

Here are the pictures of our trip, click on this LINK.

Revival

2009-06-02T14:20:00.001+08:00

It has been more than 8 months since my last update on this blog. I could have posted earlier but due to various reasons, nothing was posted.

There have been many activities in our home since then - Christmas 2008, Macau trip, Enzo's birthday, Zia's graduation, family outings, etc.

I will try to post each activity to update this blog. A new and hopefully better blog from moi.

Zia and iPhone

2008-10-11T00:45:00.002+08:00

Zia has been using my iPhone for the past two weeks. Everynight once I arrive at home, she will get the phone and play with it. She uses these applications: Bubbles, Blowhorn, Moo, Preschool Adventure, Koi Pond, Sketch, Kaleidoscope, Piano, Drum, and recently iZoo wherein she chooses an animal from the list then as she taps the picture of the animal, she would listen to the sound of that animal.

At first, she chooses the animals randomly, then when we tried to have her look and select certain animals, me and Judith were amazed that she can pick the correct animal. So she has memorized some spelling of these animals. Early stage of reading, YES!

Yun nga lang, si Enzo di makagamit, laging yung ate lang niya. Bili kaya ako ng isa pa?

Comics

2008-07-24T15:30:00.005+08:00

I have been a comic book collector since 1991. So for the past 17 years, I have been reading, buying and collecting comic books. Previous to that I would just read comic books from the shelves of bookstores or from my friends collections.

When I was in elementary (maybe grade 3), my Tatay would subscribe to Liwayway magazine everyweek. That was one of my early exposures to the wonderful world of comic books. During this time as well, my Tito Ely and Tita Luz who were then living beside our house in Olympia, Makati, had numerous tagalog comics in their house, Aliwan Komiks, Tagalog Klasiks, Wakasan, etc. During weekends, I would be reading Funny Comics in their home.

Every Sunday morning after Mass, our family would go to Makati Supermart in Ayala. After eating spaghetti in the Coffee Shop, we would proceed to our grocery shopping. While Tatay and Nanay are busy shopping, I would just go to the comic book aisle of the supermart. I would just read the comic books there until they would pass by me on the aisle notifying me that it’s time to go home. By that time, I have read around 5 comic books there.

This practice would go on for many years. I would just read the comic books week after week. In Paco Catholic School, we have comic books as well in the Library. I discovered there Tintin Comics and Asterix Comics. If I had some free time then, I would just read all the issues of these titles.

Of course during high school, priorities changed. Comic books were just there but not really tweaked my interest as much as other interests during that time.

This changed in 1991 when I read the series The Infinity Gauntlet. The story was about a super villain (Thanos) against all, I mean all the heroes of Marvel Comics.

I was hooked. If I remember it right, I read issue Number 1 in a friend’s house, after finishing that issue, my next instinct was to go to the nearest bookstore to buy the whole series (which eventually I did). I was a 2nd year college student of UP Diliman then.

That was also a good diving point, a good exposure to the different characters of Marvel Comics. Because all of their heroes were in that series, the reader has the chance to see how they act, how they perform. Thus the reader now is intrigued and would be eager to buy the respective titles of these comic book heroes. I was intrigued then with Wolverine, thus my first exposure to the X-men.

After nearly a month since I read the Gauntlet, I was buying around 5-10 titles a week. Most of the titles I was buying were from Marvel Comics, basically the X-men, and their previous issues or back issues. Since I was in Diliman then, I would go to Filbars Store in New York, Cubao to buy my books. If some of the issues become out of stock, I would go to Greenhills or Goldcrest Mall in Ayala or in Robinsons Galleria.

1991 was also a golden year for comic books. This was the time wherein the big names in Marvel, formed their own comic book company – Image Comics.

All the gimmicks for comics were there, multiple covers, gold covers, glow-in-the-dark covers, etc. I was collecting nearly 15 titles a week then.

I usually save my allowance money for comics. During that time, a comic book is around P30-P40 per issue. I have no vices then, this was my vice.

At present, I have more than a roomful of comic books. I store them on hard plastic containers, each book individually wrapped by plastic sheet with cardboard. I have also prepared a computerized database for my books. Am I stopping? Definitely not, it has become a part of my life. I have a regular store now in Robinsons Manila wherein the moment I enter, they give me the prepared weekly titles I have pre-ordered via email with their owner. Hopefully someday, one of my kids will get my interest for these wonderful comic books.

37

2008-07-23T15:14:00.003+08:00

Last year I posted here my thoughts of being 36 years old.

Well, I just turned 37 a month ago, and another year of wrinkles, white hairs and aching back were added to my body.

Socially, quite a lot has transpired since last year. I've been to Singapore for the 3rd time, been to Ilocos and Bangkok for the first time. I'm still in PGH, working as an administrator for the hospital (my 5th of 6 years) and a consultant for the Department of Ophthalmology. Our group in Eye Republic is still doing good. We might have a new clinic by early next year in St. Luke's The Fort. I still need to finish my thesis in my Masteral degree in Informatics.

Tatay and Nanay were here last year (almost half a year) and they did a lot of things - fix the house, buy a new car and sadly, to bury my Tito Ben, Tito Toto and Lola who all passed away the last year. Some uncles and aunts were also able to visit us (Tita Josie from New York and Tito Francis with Wesley, Jeffrey and Tiffany).

Zia and Enzo are growing fast. Zia is currently enrolled in a special school to further train her speech and social development, while Enzo is becoming more of me. Most of my nights are playtime with my wonderful children.

Judith is becoming busy. Most of her clinic days, she has even more patients than me. She has hired a driver to accompany her, making me less worried when she is out working.

Hopefully, this next year will be as much as fun and more productive than the previous one.

37, tsk tsk, I'm getting old...

Bangkok

2008-06-19T11:43:00.005+08:00

Last month, I was in Bangkok to attend an ophthalmological conference, together with 5 other eye doctors.

It was my first time in Thailand, and my experience was a very good one.

Judith should have been with me, but some problems came up thus she was not able to come. It could have been her second time around there, and she was quite excited to return sana.

Our group stayed in the Millennium Hilton Hotel, it was located along the Chao Praya River. The view from my room was quite good, overlooking the skyline of Bangkok. Upon arrival, our group headed straight to the shopping areas. Our itinerary was quite hectic so we have to really maximize our time.

Thailand is very similar to the Philippines in terms of weather, landscape, people's appearances; the main difference is their culture. They are very nationalistic, very proud of their heritage, and very proud of their monarchy, especially the king. In almost every nook of the city, the picture of their king is very much visible. Unlike here wherein huge billboards of politicians and movie stars adorn our streets. Doon sa kanila, yung hari lang nila, wala ng iba.

Food is great, spicy and very tasty. Streets are full of people, and traffic is almost similar to Manila. We visited the Grand Palace which is very majestic. I was in awe with the different temples and its designs. Truly a must see if you are in Bangkok. We also went to some discount markets (Chatuchak) wherein a wide variety of products can be bought. Their shopping malls are quite similar compared to ours. I also had a Thai massage (sarap). Of course, we went to the infamous PatPong district wherein exotic dancers perform exotic things from their exotic private parts. IBA!

Because of the limited time, we were not able to visit the other parts of Thailand, hopefully the next time I'll be there, I would be with Judith enjoying the beaches of Phuket.

And yes, the ophtha convention was good, too.

Lola, 96

2008-05-19T16:10:00.003+08:00

My Lola, Placida Perez, died last May 16, 2008.

Her wonderful heart finally failed her. She would have been 97 years old on October.

She is my Tatay’s mother. She had 8 children and she outlived not only Lolo but also 5 of her children.

She has been sick since 2 weeks ago, I facilitated her transfer from Ospital ng Makati to PGH so that I can monitor her better. She has been fighting pneumonia and winning, but her heart just gave in.

I and the other apos and in-laws were tasked to oversee the funeral services because all of the anaks are abroad at present - my Tatay is in Canada, my Tita Madre is in New York and my Tito Nonong is in Chicago. So we are facing the prospect of a long wake because we have to wait for the 3 to arrive. The wake is at our home in Makati.

She is Lola Payat to me when I was a kid, to differentiate her with my Nanay’s mother who was Lola Taba. I grew up with her in Makati. She and Lolo raised me when I was a toddler because Nanay and Tatay were both working so they would leave me in Lolo’s house. They spoiled me a lot. I remember that they would always ask me what I would want to eat, and that will be the meal for the day (during that time, I would always request fried bangus - everyday!). I remember they would also take turns in giving me bath. I still do what Lola would always do to me when the water is too cold for bath, sprinkle little amount of the cold water all over my body so that it would acclimatize with the coldness and not immediately be dosed with the whole cool water.

They would boast me to all their neighbors, telling them to look and marvel at their cute apo. We live near a market, so just try to imagine how many people are passing-by our home everyday, and they would extol these people to look and marvel at me.

She is also makulit, she would always insist what she wants. One funny memory I can’t forget is when we were visiting Tito Toto in their house in Pateros. During the 70’s, to reach that house, we have to cross a wide rice field walking over elevated wooden planks approximately 500 meters long and winding thru the field. Lola was so adamant that the wooden planks were not secure to walk upon that she crawled on all fours! Imagine an old lady crawling over a ricefield in the middle of the day. Even in her latter years, if she is in a mall, she would not ride an escalator. She thinks they are dangerous.

Tita Madre wrote to me in one of her emails that the tables are turned that I now took care of Lola in her most difficult time, and she was thankful that I was giving Lola the best attention I can have. For me, it’s the least thing I can do.

I will surely miss her. My only regret is that I failed to show Enzo to her when she was still alive. Very big mistake in my part.

She is quite a lady and she has been a big part of what I am today.

Thank you Lola!

Zia at 3 years old

2008-05-19T16:03:00.002+08:00

My baby girl Zia is 3 years old!

We went to The Fun Ranch in Alabang. Judith, me, Zia, Enzo, and the 2 yayas Jen and Kris all had fun in the play area. Even though Zia and Enzo are still recuperating from a viral respiratory infection, they had fun running, playing, tumbling, sliding through the giant play area for almost 2 hours. We also had our dinner there.

Funny how fast time flies. I can still vividly remember when Judith was giving birth to her, the first time she cried, her first smile, her first crawl, her baptism, her first word, her early steps.

At present, she is still as cute as ever but with few quirks. As mentioned from my previous blog, she has some difficulty expressing some sentiments, so tantrums are part of her daily activities. If her “routines” are not followed, she would resort to crying, shouting, arm stomping, punching until she calms down.

Some of her quirks:
- she should be the one who will remove the cover of her feeding bottle, if somebody else does it, tantrums will ensue
- she would endlessly climb the top of each couch, terrifying all people who will see her that she might fall any minute
- she doesn’t want to watch the credits after shows, if she sees the names scrolling down, she would cover her eyes and begin to cry
- if Enzo is being given something that she also likes, she would try to insinuate herself

Although these quirks would stress me and Judith, she would rectify herself by doing these:
- upon my or Judith’s arrival at home, a ready smile from her will be surely received (on my part, starting once I honk the car’s horn, I would surely see her peeping from the window to see me going inside the driveway - everytime!)
- kissing Enzo if she’s nanggigigil with him
- by reciting the words of books previously read to her (her memory is quite amazing)
- by singing her favorite tunes (from her baby Einstein videos, from TV commercials)
- by pulling my hand when she wants to go up in the bedroom, so that I accompany her going up the stairs and counting all the steps at night

Me and Judith are still hoping that her language delay is just a minor bump, and eventually she would be at par with her age group with regards to language.

Zia's Development

2008-05-19T08:48:00.004+08:00

Last Tuesday, May 13, Judith and I accompanied Zia to a Developmental Pediatrician in Medical City. She is Dr. Jackie Navarro, referred by our pediatrician friend Dr. Ces Alinea.

Zia can speak words but we still think that she is not at par with her age group in terms of language development. Her tantrums are quite increasing maybe because she cannot express what she wants to convey.

So off we went to Medical City, I and Judith have to scrap our usual schedules to be able to visit Dr. Navarro. Developmental Pediatricians usually have long queues for appointments so when we were informed by her secretary that an opening is there, we took it immediately.

Zia is horrified in riding elevators. She would cry endlessly, would scream and would struggle inside the elevator until the ride would finish. When we parked our car in the basement, we had no choice but to ride a short 3-level elevator ride going up to the hospital lobby. As expected, struggle galore ensued. When we alighted, there was still a nine storey elevator trip going to the clinic. So being diligent and understanding parents, we took the stairs going up. PGH's highest floor is 8th, so I went up to a level even higher than PGH while carrying a sobbing Zia. Pogi points for me and Judith as parents. Of course, upon reaching the ninth floor, both of us were already dead tired.

Anyway, Dr. Navarro was very thorough with her evaluation with Zia. She performed a test called Griffith Developmental Test. It is a series of tests wherein the child does simple tasks, identifying various objects, shapes, colors, sizes. The test is quite extensive, almost an hour. Judith, after the test, told me that she was quite anxious while Zia was doing the test. Parang gusto niyang i-cheer si Zia na "Kaya mo yan , anak! Tinuro ko sa yo yan kanina!" I was quite impressed with Zia. She answered all questions, no tantrums. Even if she did not know the answer to some questions, she would still try to answer, sometimes just murmuring words.

The test revealed Zia has a borderline language developmental delay. For her present age of 3 years, her language development is at 2 years and 2 month stage. Good news is that she has no autism. Dr. Navarro's advise is to enroll her to a speech therapist, a hearing test, and more stimulation at home.

Of course, before going home, we have to do the compulsory visit to Jollibee. She adores that bee. And of course, anything that she likes, we tend to give. Hay...

Enzo Kalbo

2008-04-20T06:48:00.003+08:00

Enzo had his first haircut 2 days ago. Weather here in Manila is extremely hot, and Enzo is the pawisin type. So me and Judith decided that the hair should go for the meantime. He was not magulo during the haircut, just watched the video while the barber was doing his stuff. After a few minutes, it was done. Sayang, di ko naisip na mai mohawk ala Chuck Liddell, sige next time na lang.

This was also the place where Zia had her first hair cut, its in SM SouthMall.

Parang bumait nga siya pagkatapos magupitan. Ang haba pala ng ulo ng anak ko.

Enzo at 1

2008-03-28T09:28:00.003+08:00

My son Enzo is also growing fast. Since his 1st birthday, his growth is exponential. His walk has improved a lot, he walks quite fast compared to Zia, although Zia walked much earlier compared to his age now. He can utter simple words like "papa" and would usually mimic his Ate Zia. He is also papansin. He gets jealous if the attention is all with his Ate Zia, so he will also join the commotion, whatever it is just to be included. He also has fixation with computers, everytime I am using my laptop or even the desktop computers, he would go near me and would make gestures so that he would see the monitor. Of course, that's the end of my computer work.

The 2 pictures below were taken when Enzo went to Tagaytay with Tatay, Tita Madre and Tito Nonong (seen here carrying Enzo)

Zia and Enzo usually play inside the lawn in our house every afternoon. Zia usually runs around and water the plants, Enzo just follows his sister, or annoys Bambam constantly. Seen here is his tricycle, a gift from one of my friend, Egay in Paco.

When Zia plays with her toys, Enzo usually would also try to play with the same toys, even if there are other toys around, which annoys Zia to the max. Zia would usually nudge him away, this would result to Enzo crying (with no tears) since he doesn't like to be nudged away. He would sumbong to Ate Jen or Judith and will make paawa so as to be able to play with Zia. If Jen and Judith are not around, Enzo would just bully away himself to be able to play with the toys of Zia. This would make Zia crazy and she would shout, scatter and throw the toys around the house na lang so that nobody can play with them anymore. Hay...

How can you not adore these lovely kids?

Ilocos

2008-03-28T08:01:00.003+08:00

I was in Ilocos last March 16-18 as part of the Tatak PGH Plus contingency. Tatak PGH Plus is a project of PGH, the Department of Health and selected local or regional hospitals wherein PGH personnel train capacity-building to the personnel of these local hospitals and promote true hospital networking.

Mariano Marcos Memorial Hospital in Batac, Ilocos Norte was selected as one of the key hospitals in the north and my boss, PGH Director Carmelo Alfiler tapped me to give lectures in ophthalmology, computerization and informatics. There were 6 of us from PGH who went there, aside from myself and the director, the liaison of DOH for this project Dr. Paz Corrales, the head of PGH medical records Ms. Lacambacal, and 2 nurses Ms. Mangaser and Ms Salve. We were billeted in Paoay (Casa Dona Emilia Hotel), and we had our lectures in MMMH in Batac.

It was the first time I visited Batac and Paoay. Both towns are beautiful, no traffic, not many people loitering around, people are friendly. Our hotel was located near the age old Paoay Church (St. Augustine) so I brought my iPhone along and took some pictures.

We were also able to visit the tomb of former President Marcos in Batac and the Malacanang of the North in Paoay. Ilocos is indeed Marcos country.

The food was great as well. The famous bagnet was served to us at least 3 times. Its a local preparation of fried pork which is very yummy. Tried the pakbet, their empanada, their pancit miki and the longganisa. We were given pasalubong pa with these food. I enjoyed the trip and met new friends.

I was able to see old friends who are now based there, RJ in Cebu Pacific is a neighbor in Las Pinas, he helped us in our booking, Amelen - a Med School classmate and Nicolo - a brod practicing in Vigan.

Maybe the next time I'll be back there, I'll go to the famous Pagudpud beach and visit Fort Ilocandia, or visit the sand dunes of Currimao.

Jala-jala

2008-03-27T16:56:00.004+08:00

The whole Perez family had its summer outing in Jalajala, Rizal. Tatay arranged with the Maryknoll sisters the place. It is owned and managed by the sisters. The place although quite far, is very beautiful. The place is overlooking Laguna de Bay. Food was delicious courtesy of the caretakers of the place.

My family, Jing's family, Jojo's family and Tatay & Nanay were all there.

Ogie and Regine...

As usual, Zia enjoyed the waters of the pool. Kahit ginaw na ginaw na siya, tingnan nyo...

Enzo was just recovering from tonsilitis, but when we reached the place, parang di nanggaling sa sakit, takbo na agad ng takbo. Take note of the background view.

There were 2 pools, obviously this was the kiddie pool...

We all enjoyed the place. We even had karaoke singing during the night. Matagal na rin naming di nakasama sina Tatay sa outing kaya sulit naman. Nung pauwi na kami, yun naman yung laban ni Pacquiao kay Marquez. Nauna na kaming umalis dahil may flight pa ako papuntang Laoag. Nag-road trip pa kami, kasi nung papunta sa Antipolo route (north) kami nagdaan. Nung pauwi, sa Laguna naman (south) kami nagdaan. So in essence, nalibot namin yung buong perimeter ng Laguna de Bay. Medyo nasasanay na rin sina Zia at Enzo sa long trips, di na masyado nahirapan si Judith sa sasakyan.

Zia at 2 1/2 years old

2008-03-27T16:18:00.004+08:00

My daughter Zia is growing fast.

Zia has been doing good since her hospital stay. She's very malambing but on some occasions she is so masungit. Everytime I arrive home, when I honk the car for the gates to be opened from inside, I will definitely see her head peeping in the window to view me - ready with her toothy smile. After parking the car, upon entering the home, she would be ready to greet me "Papa" sometimes operatic style.

She also has good memory. She already knows all the letters, can count from 1-19, knows all the basic colors, knows all the planets, knows and recognizes the pictures in all her books and some famous nursery rhymes. She can even sing part of Mozart's "Serenade #13 in G" and the Blue Danube.

Yun nga lang, medyo masungit din parang tatay niya. Kapag merong ibang kumakanta ng mga nursery rhymes na favorite nya, sisigawan ka niya. Gusto niya walang kakantang iba kundi siya.

One thing she lacks is social interaction. During children's parties, she would play with the other kids but would not interact with them. Hopefully upon Enzo's presence, she would learn to be with people with her age.

She still has occasional bowel problems, but not as problematic as a few months back. Her appetite is ok but really not strong. Nightmares during sleep are obvious because she usually talks and cries in the middle of the night. Me and Judith are contemplating whether to enroll her in June or next year na lang...

Philippine Glaucoma Congress

2008-03-27T15:53:00.002+08:00

I am a member of the Philippine Glaucoma Society (PGS). PGS is an association of 32 glaucoma specialists practicing actively throughout the country. The Society is celebrating its 10th year this year, and to celebrate such an occasion, we held the first ever Philippine Glaucoma Congress. We invited a distinguished group of speakers from abroad, all respectable glaucoma practitioners, including some who wrote textbooks in glaucoma which I used when I was still in training.

I was part of the organizing committee, and the preparations for this event were quite enormous. Starting from inviting the speakers, then in formulating the program, choosing the venue, the logistics, the food, the exhibitors, etc... All in all, the PGS was quite excited weeks before the event. We even have foreign delegates from Vietnam. The excitement turned into anxiety when one of the speakers sent a notice that he would not be able to come. The PGS just coordinated with him, and he eventually sent videos of his lectures.

The meetings before the event became weekly, and our officials in PGS were very meticulous in every detail of the congress. This is the first ever glaucoma congress and we were very eager to make it a big success.

When the event finally arrived, we were so delighted to see that the number of delegate attendees exceeded our expectation of 300 people. Almost all the members of PGS were doing their share of work, from moderating the lectures to "bodyguarding" the foreign speakers. We were also active in mingling with the local delegates, to get their feedbacks and to share their views regarding the congress.

The fellowship night was also success. The band played great music, the food was quite delicious and fulling, drinks were very much available to everybody. The foreign speakers were even dancing on the stage, clearly having a wonderful time. The local delegates were rocking as if in a party, some even became drunk. Some of the delegates stated that it was one of the best fellowship nights they have attended.

The congress has achieved its goal - to demystify the issues of glaucoma. Hopefully this congress is just the start of series of glaucoma congress.

To view the congress webpage click HERE.

Tito Nonong

2008-03-23T13:44:00.001+08:00

Tatay’s youngest brother, Richard Perez, or Tito Nonong for short, went home last February from the States to have a mini reunion with his brother and sister. Tatay, Tita Madre and Tito Nonong are the only remaining among their siblings. They were all 8, and Tito Ben was the last one who joined his Maker (as mentioned in my last year’s entry to this blog).

Tito Nonong is the youngest among the brood, he’s based in Chicago now, the only one among the brothers who is an American citizen. he has one child, my cousin Chris who is a member of the US Air Force.

Anyway, their mini reunion was quite eventful. My 96 year old Lola (their mother) was teary eyed when she recognized that her Nonong is back home. She is quite forgetful now so it took her sometime before she recognized Tito Nonong.

Tito Nonong spent almost 3 weeks in the Philippines. He went with Tatay and Nanay in Gen. Santos City to meet one of their cousins who live there (Tita Sol). He also had time to take care of Lola while he was in Makati. He was also able to went to Tagaytay with the pamangkins, and he was also able to visit the malls.

Here's a picture taken when me and Judith treated the 3 of them for dinner in a Japanese restaurant in Mall of Asia.

iPhone

2008-02-25T01:16:00.002+08:00

I am now posting here using my new iPhone. I have been using this new toy of mine for a week now, and truly this is indeed a wonderful gadget. This is just a test post, but I think I'm getting the hang of this phone.
After knowing more of the features of this phone, maybe I'll post more here using this phone.

Enzo's 1st Birthday

2008-02-04T07:58:00.000+08:00

Enzo celebrated his first birthday last January 20, 2008. As shown in the invitation card (designed by Tita Candee) the theme of the party is "Sporty".

The party was held at our home in Las Pinas, invited guests were family, friends and neighbors. Scary moments before the party brought about by rains during the morning were solved after hurriedly renting tent in the garden. The garden at home was decorated with tables, balloons and other ornaments. Candee designed cute sports table decors and themed-balloons, Mek made toy balloons. Tatay rented clowns who did some party tricks, games and magic shows.

Tita Madre started the party with a prayer, then the children started to have fun - running, playing, watching the clowns, and of course eating. The catered food was very delicious and very filling.

Enzo, the star of the day, was very lively and was engaging with his guests. Some guests came from Quezon City from the north and Carmona in the south. The weather cooperated and no rain fell even during the night.

To see the pictures, please click HERE!

Zia in hospital

2008-01-28T16:54:00.000+08:00

My baby Zia got sick last week. First was fever but her activity was still OK, this was Wednesday. Thursday brought about lethargy and fever, but her appetite was still OK. I did not go to PGH to work, decided to stay at home to help Judith in observing her.

Early morning of Friday, she woke up crying and threw up her previously ingested milk with stain of blood! Two more episodes of similar vomiting prompted Judith to decide that she be admitted in a hospital.

I, Judith, Zia and Cris went to PGH, I fixed the necessary papers and she was eventually admitted. The director of PGH had a scheduled cataract surgery that morning so I wasn't with Zia when her intravenous line was inserted. It was a necessary evil, I knew she will be in pain but we need to re-hydrate her, she was not eating and did not want to drink her milk anymore, probably afraid to throw up again. When the cataract surgery, I proceeded to her room, the IV line already inserted. Judith narrated that Zia's cry was so loud that perhaps even the adjacent rooms heard her cries. I was able to talk to the resident physician who inserted her line, and it took her 2 tries to successfully insert the line, meaning 2 painful injections to my baby Zia's hands. What even made me so sorry is the fact that she cannot handle her toy Boots on one of her hands. But still, no amount of persuasion can remove that toy from her other hand. Her pediatrician, Dr. Ces Alinea called it

The whole day of Friday, we were just with her, playing her favorite DVD in my iBook, talking with her, forcing her to eat. It was very frustrating to see your child get sick. Every time a visitor enters the room, she would hide and cry, expecting to be pierced again. But even during those times when she was weak, if we ask her something she still tried to answer us, even trying to play with us as if she is not sick.

After an overnight stay, her antibiotic finally kicked in and did its job. By Saturday morning, she was visited by Daddy. She was a little bit better. I had surgery that Saturday morning and held clinic during the afternoon. When I visited her early Saturday evening, she was already walking, and so happy because her IV line was removed! Judith had an incident with a nurse but that's another story.

By Saturday 11PM we are home and Zia was on her way to recovery.

Pasko 2007

2008-01-05T12:09:00.000+08:00

Masaya ang Pasko ng Pamilyang Perez ngayong 2007.

Una, dahil ito ang unang Pasko ni Enzo.
Pangalawa, nandito sa Pilipinas si Tatay at Nanay.
Pangatlo, nakasama namin sina Mommy at Daddy.
Pang-apat, kasama namin lahat ng aming mga kapatid, pamangkin, pinsan at iba pang mahal sa buhay.

Si Zia, naging paborito ang Ray Conniff na Christmas Tunes, laging pinapatugtog niya at sinasabayan pa sa pagkanta, pa-utal nga lang. Madami rin sila ni Enzong natanggap na mga regalo. Ako rin, medyo maraming natanggap na regalo lalo na galing sa opisina sa PGH.

Nakapag misa de gallo kami sa aming simbahan kasama si Zia (tulog na si Enzo) sa unang pagkakataon dahil sa nakaraang tatlong taon, sa PGH kami nakakapagsimba. Yun nga lang, saksakan ng gulo si Zia sa misa, umaabot sa harap ng simbahan kakalakad.

Kumpleto rin ang mga apo nina Tatay at Nanay noong Noche Buena sa Las Pinas. Masaya ang mga bata lalo na sa palitan ng mga regalo. Sayang at wala sina Jay at JP.

Kasama naman namin sa bahay nung Dec 25 sina Mommy, Joy, Mek, Candy, Ogie, Tita Nilds at mga bata. Siyempre, masaya na naman ang buong bahay dahil kina Gian, Sean, at Kyla.

Noong Dec 26, pumunta naman kami sa SM Mall of Asia, sa Gumbo Restaurant para makasama namin si Daddy. Katulad nung nakaraang dalawang araw, masaya ulit ang lahat.

Heto ang mga pruweba...

Christmas with Barkada

2007-12-28T11:38:00.000+08:00

When me and Judith were in Med School, we were fortunate to have a group of friends who gave us support and lots of laughter specially during those difficult times.

The guys were collectively called BTJCLOCK - Bernie, Tek, Junji, Chong, Lito, Odj, Cesar and Kim. The girls - Judith, Jef, Sonia, Lanie, Jen, Chinky and Tina.

Junji and Chinky are in Canada with their two boys, EJ and Paolo. Jef, Jen and Tina are in the States. Bernie is based in Pangasinan with his wife Windy and their daughter Lyanna. Lito with wife Joy and kids Bebang ang Bentong are in Bataan. Kim is presently finishing his studies in South Africa and will be back in February.

The rest of us are here in Metro Manila, from time to time we meet during parties specially for our own respective kids. We make it a point to meet every Christmas - chatting, reminiscing and exchanging gifts.

The picture below was taken last December 23, when the barkada met in Italliani's restaurant in Bonifacio High Street in The Fort. From left: Tek, me, Judith, Jude, Lanie, Sonia, Laura, Chong and Odj. The kids in front: Joaquin, Andrea and Gabriela.

Walking Enzo

2007-12-27T17:04:00.000+08:00

My baby boy is growing fast.

Here are two proofs, in the first video he is seen walking with a walker (which he usually doesn't like to use). He struts around the house using this walker until his patience wears off.

This other video shows Enzo walking with support without the walker inside our home.

Hope you enjoy them as much as we do...

Tita Josie and Tito Francis

2007-12-27T16:38:00.000+08:00

When my Tito Toto died, 2 of my Nanay's brothers and a sister came home from the States, they are Tito Mading, Tito Francis and Tita Josie respectively. I have not seen them for at least 10 years.

Tito Mading and Tito Francis stayed in Makati for the duration of their visit while Tita Josie stayed in our home in Las Pinas. My other tita who lives in Dasmarinas, Cavite, Tita Inday, stayed with Tita Josie in our home so as to accompany Tita Josie while she is here in the country. They stayed for almost 3 weeks here in the country.

Both the pictures above were taken while we brought Tita Josie in Tagaytay Vista Hotel Viewdeck. Me, Judith, Nanay, Tatay, Tita Inday and Tita Josie afterwards went to lunch in one of the restaurants there.

The pictures below were taken at home, a few hours before they left for America. Seen here are Tita Josie, Tita Inday, Tito Francis and Enzo.

PCS Distinguished Alumnus

2007-11-22T11:39:00.000+08:00

I spent my kindergarten days, elementary days, and high school days in Paco Catholic School (PCS). Last November 10, 2007, after graduating from PCS in 1988, the school alumni board selected me as one of their distinguished alumni for 2007.

The ceremony was held in the PCS Jaime Cardinal Sin Auditorium where the school director Monsignor Domingo Cirilos led the ceremonies.

I was so honored being with the other awardees, one is an Undersecretary of the Department of Tourism from Batch 1964, the next one was a prominent businessman who owns a Jollibee franchise from Batch 1963, the next one was a multi-awarded nurse now based in Hawaii from Batch 1975, and the other one is a distinguished prosecutor judge from Batch 1978. I was the youngest, an ophthalmologist from Batch 1988.

Judith accompanied me during the ceremony, and the event became more fun because some of my batchmates went there to personally greet me - Melody, Egay, Doming and Luzvi.

4th Year Anniversary

2007-11-22T11:24:00.000+08:00

Judith and I celebrated our 4th year as a wedded couple last November 18. It was a Sunday, so all of us - the kids, the yayas and Nanay & Tatay - went to Alabang Town Center for a lunch date. We treated Nanay and Tatay to a lunch, while the kids went to a play center with the yayas. Zia and Enzo had a grand time playing while Jen and Cris tried to catch up with the 2 kids. All of us had a great time, especially the kids as shown here...

Tito Toto

2007-11-22T07:43:00.000+08:00

Another sad news reached our home.

Nanay's eldest brother, Emilio Arboleda, Jr. or Tito Toto has died last November 18, 2007. I have regular contacts with him, since his wife Tita Nita is a patient of mine, having operated on her both eyes for glaucoma.

His dedication to his family is truly unremarkable, he always accompany Tita to her appointments in the clinic, and during family reunions, he always say the funniest jokes.

He will be truly missed.

Tagaytay 2007

2007-11-08T12:03:00.000+08:00

The family spent a 3 day vacation in Taal Vista Hotel last October 19-21, 2007. The kids enjoyed their stay. Zia had lots of running space to go around, Enzo enjoyed the cold weather. Judith enjoyed the break from work, I enjoyed their enjoyment.

Tito Ben

2007-11-08T11:52:00.000+08:00

One part of the Tahanan ng mga Perez has left.

My Tito Ben died after more than 2 months of lingering illness last October 18, 2007. He was buried last October 25, 2007 in Makati Municipal Cemetery.

As an alaga, he was the one who taught me basic rules of basketball, he introduced me to the NBA when I was in my elementary days, he gave me stories about the pillars of boxing during the 60's and 70's. Siya rin lagi ang nag-aalaga hindi lang sa akin kundi sa iba ko pang kapatid at ibang pinsan.

We all salute you, Tito. Rest in peace.

Tatay at Nanay

2007-10-12T09:22:00.000+08:00

My parents are back in the Philippines!
They arrived last week, I fetched them at the airport. They look trim and healthy.

Their trip from Canada was uneventful, and they arrived just rightly, when the weather here improved, no more rains.

From the airport, we proceeded to Makati, and they have a wonderful reception from Lola, Tita Madre, Jing, Noli and the kids. Lola cried, saying those were tears of joy. After lunch, I accompanied them to Ospital ng Makati, where Tito Ben was confined. This was also one of the reason why they have traveled much earlier compared to their original plan of going here before Christmas time. Tito Ben was still very weak, but was quite glad when he saw Tatay and Nanay.

On their first weekend, the whole family went to dinner in one of the "market restaurants" in Pasay - me and Judith were there, Noli and Jing's kids were there, Bado, Lare and Alicia also were there. The food was great, and we all had a great time. We wished that Jay and Biboy were also there. I'll post pictures soon.

Then Tatay and Nanay finally settled in Las Pinas. They were glad that they're finally home. Tatay congratulated Judith for taking good care of the house, and of course, they were very eager to see Zia and Enzo for the first time.

The succeeding days were not as good, Nanay has started to have some asthma problems again (which she did not have when she was in Canada), and Tatay had some flu and diarrhea. Jet lag is still a problem, compounding the issue.

All in all, I am happy that I am again in the company of my parents. They are planning to be here until the first quarter of 2008.

Nice!

Mommy's Birthday

2007-09-30T13:58:00.000+08:00

Birthday kahapon ni Mommy Goody, September 29, pero ngayon ang celebration dito sa bahay. Dumating sina Mhek, Joy and Kyla, nagdala sila ng cake.

Sarap ng lunch, liempo, hipon at ginataang gulay.

Ok talaga pag dito lang sa bahay at kasama ang pamilya! Next week, parating na sina Tatay.

Kulit Enzo

2007-09-04T16:47:00.000+08:00

My baby boy beginning to be demanding...

Family Time

2007-09-04T16:25:00.000+08:00

I am blessed with a beautiful wife and two gorgeous babies. Agree?

Enough said!

Mu vs Phi

2007-08-26T15:00:00.001+08:00

I am a fanatic of my fraternity - the Mu Sigma Phi Fraternity of the UP College of Medicine. In fact my whole batch - Batch 98 - is very emphatic about the frat. (And I'm the Batch Leader)

During the recent PGH Centennial Celebrations, Dr. Armand Crisostomo, the over-all chair (who is also a Brod), decided to have a basketball game between our frat and the other frat, the Phi Kappa Mu.

It's not an ordinary game, the last time the 2 frats played against each other was more than 10 years ago. And for this game, not only the undergraduates can play, even the alumni. So the game was set on a Thursday afternoon.

All the brods wore red, the others wore yellow (chicken?). Our team was made up of the strong team mostly from the late 80's and the early 90's squad. The Others were mostly undergraduates.

Of course my role in the game is to heckle along with my brods in the sideline (and to be the waterboys for the team).

Jumpball - the Phi got the ball but was called on a backing violation. My cohort hecklers -Jotek, Archie and Nick rained down heckles to this poor Phi "May linya dyan, ta_ga!" "Bobo mo di marunong tumingin" "Patingin ka sa OPhtha" - This was just the first 2 seconds of the game. When the Mu team got the ball, the first shot went in - CHAOS ensued (in our court) - 20 seconds just elapsed.

Some of my undergrad brods were initially timid, and were quite surprised that our group, the Consultants, are the leaders in heckling. They were just not accustomed in a game like this.

At the baseline of the court of the Phis were Raffy Consunji, Ebang Evangelista, Dave Leal and 30 more brods, all heckling the lights out of the shooting free throw shooter from the Phi. Sometimes "Mu,mu,mu,mu..." endless until the shooter shoots the ball, othertimes just shouting "WALA!", sometimes Raffy would shout from the baseline, "Brods quiet! Sayang lang, di naman yan papasok!", and sometimes the old dirty fingers wagging before the shooter goes up for his shot.

Of course expect another round of heckling for every blocked shot, steal and acrobatic shot from Tony Perez (who would fix his sidehair after a shot in front of the Mu bench while running back for defense). Marlon Oclarence (Ocla) played the pointguard position. Because the young Phis don't know him, he would always be left open at the top of the keyhole area, for his first 2 open shots, no success. But when he was left open for the 3rd time, he connected a 3! While running backwards for defense, he pointed at the face of his defender while shouting "Bantayan mo ako!", for all to hear.

To their credit, the young Phis were really good. After the 1st quarter, we led by only 2 points, and at the end of half time it was tied. The young players from Phi were quick and athletic with good shooting. There was one poor Phi however with the name Pakks. He is a good player but quite hot on the collar, so he was one of the favorite of our group to heckle. There was even an altercation between him and the star player Tony Perez, so all the brods were shouting "Sandara, sandara, sandara! Then from behind one voice will shout "PAKKS!", of course that will be Jotek. Specially when he fouled out! Poor fellow.

After the 3rd quarter, they were leading by 2 points, of course c/o Maxie Escano's 3 point shot at the end of the quarter. Some of our players were getting tired, until Rodney Dofitas gave a pep talk during a time out, they were all rejuvenated, specially after seeing Rodney getting chunks of ice and icewater from the cooler and splashing it to his head and torso. The Mu players played it very smart. They drove the lane and fished for some fouls. Penalty became the enemy of the Phis, and every foul that they gave was a free throw. The lead balooned to 8 at one point and 2 of the Phis fouled out. Then came Iggy. Gar Eufemio's lips can be read as "Sumusuko na yata sila, pinasok na si Iggy"

In the waning seconds of the game, Jotek went inside the court during a time out and led the whole Mu supporters in shouting 'Walang iiyak, walang iiyak", of course with his trademark yosi on his hand.

When the final buzzer sounded off, the score was 57-50. Best Frat March singing in a long time, inside the court with the Phis in attendance.

I wasn't able to attend the post game inuman in Orchid until 10 PM, when me, rainier, Archie and Jotek arrived, most of the players were still there. Raffy was drunk but still kept on shouting "Pakks u" "Fuc_ing Phi sh_t" and the like. Bunny Valdez, Tony, Ocla, Gar, and the younger brods were still there along with Kups. It was a great day to finish the day.

I was hoarse for 3 days.

PGH Centennial

2007-08-26T14:22:00.000+08:00

The Philippine General Hospital celebrated its Centennial Celebrations last Aug 13-17, 2007. Of course, it was a very busy week for us because the whole week was packed with activities. For me, it was very tiring since I'm the protocol officer of the hospital.

Monday was the opening day, and the guest of honor is Vice President Noli de Castro. the day itself is quite stressful, everybody was excited. I had some problems with the staff of VP de Castro, but the day ended with very well. During the afternoon, the Chief of the Civil Service Commission was our guest - Karina Constantino David.

Tuesday is giving recognition to PGH's donors, and the guest of honor is no less than the Speaker of the House Joe de Venecia. Again the event is very stressful, 2 congresswomen attended, most spouses of the senators arrived, and most of our guests came to participate. Again, the day ended well.

Wednesday has no big time activity, just some shows for the employees. However, I came home late since I waited for Judith who had a patient in nearby Manila Doctors Hospital.

Thursday is another big day, the PGH officials went to Malacanang to meet President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo. She was so happy with PGH that she gave additional P250M to the hospital. From the palace, I went directly to the Basketball game between Mu vs Phi. That would entail another post from this blog.

Friday is the actual founding day of PGH. In the morning we had the Senate President Manuel Villar as our special guest. During the night, Gary V had a concert benefit for PGH at the Manila Hotel.

It was really a tiring week, but all worth it. During the whole week, there was severe raining in Metro Manila, floods all around. I was thankful that the following Monday was a holiday, so there was a long week end and I was able to spend family time with the kids.

The thing is, additional activities are still lined up in the last week of August, there's the visit of US Amb Kenney and the Oration in PGH of DOH Sec Duque.

Ganda.

Tito Ben

2007-08-26T14:12:00.000+08:00

My Tito Ben is one of the younger brothers of Tatay. He is very sick right now in Ospital ng Makati, with lung and heart problems.

He used to look after not only me when I was small, but most of the apos since he did not have a family of his own. He is my companion when I was watching basketball in TV, and taught me the good boxers from the 50's to the 70's.

Hopefully he recovers from his condition right now.

Singapore 2007

2007-08-26T09:55:00.000+08:00

It's my 3rd time to visit this city-state, and it still never ceases to make me envious. The first time was 3 years ago, second time was last year, and this year.

You will start to feel the difference upon arriving at the Chang Mai airport. It's a thing of beauty. If the Hong Kong airport looks better but 'cold', the Singapore airport looks 'homey'. As if you don't want to leave the airport, internet wifi is free, decors and plant arrangements inside are gorgeous, and there's a station for their train to connect you to the heart of the city. Very good city planning.

The place is known for their cleanliness, and the reports are very true. Nuff said.

The food is very eclectic. They have Chinese, Malay, Indian, European and American food. The chinese food in HK is better, but you have better variety in Sing.

I was there during the so called-Great Singapore Sale. Electronics have good prices. I always visit the IT malls - Funan and Sim Lim Square - always very tempting to buy, as if the place is Divisoria of electronics. Aside from electronics, much can be bought in Sing, malls, malls and more malls are plenty especially at the Marina and Orchard areas. The prices are almost identical in Manila, though.

Places to see - Esplanade, their cultural center that looks like an armadillo from afar, Clark Quay, its like Malate or Libis but along a riverbank, the Night Safari, imagine a better Manila Zoo that's open at night, Sentosa, an island where beach and aquarium can be seen (like in Subic).

What I dont like in Sing? The name of the streets are very confusing! There's an Orchard Road, orchard avenue, orchard boulevard, orchard street, orchard way, orchard lane - and they are all located near to each other. So if you tell your taxi driver you are going to orchard, you're in trouble.

It's a good place to visit, but I still prefer Manila. Hopefully, manila would be like Sing in my lifetime.

The picture is taken inside the large Suntec Convention Center, with me are my partners Drs Rainier Covar and Happy de Guzman.

Busy

2007-08-26T06:28:00.000+08:00

It has been a month since my last post, I'll make up for lost time

I've been to Singapore to attend the 2nd World Glaucoma Congress last July 17-22. The Congress was a big success. The attendance was large, and the convention itself encouraged lots of learning and innovations in the field of glaucoma. I was with my partner and Enzo's ninong, Dr. Rainier Covar during my trip. I'll post pictures in the future posts.

PGH celebrated its Centennial Celebrations last Aug 13-17. It's a week long celebration, and everyday was a highlight day. Like my Singapore visit, I'll post some details of this event in future posts.

My Tito Ben got sick badly. In fact he is still in Ospital ng Makati ICU. He is one of my uncles who raised me when I was still small. This will be also a topic of future posts.

Metro Manila was barraged by storms these past few weeks - heavy rains and floods were evident almost everywhere. This also contributed to my slow postings.

Zia and Enzo got new helpers at home, making our tasks here relatively easier.

Following posts will be detailed.

New look for my iBook

2007-07-23T01:16:00.000+08:00

I have been using an iBook G4 since June 2005, and the old reliable has never failed me from any kind of work.

Last weekend when I was in Singapore, I chanced upon the Garskin stall located in Raffles City Shopping Center. I was able to meet the owner Mr Tom Gwee, I asked him if they do personalized designs aside from their stock designs, he said yes with same rates (Sing$ 69.95).

So after 2 years, my iBook has a new look:

Me and Tom in front of their stall. His daughter Jocelyn made the design. They have a website - www.garskin.com

June pics

2007-07-04T00:10:00.000+08:00

Mana sa tatay, naka kunot lagi ang kilay. Enzo at 5 months.

Zia at 2 years and 1 month. Enjoying her playtime outside the house.

Kids

2007-07-03T23:15:00.000+08:00

As early as now, my two kids are showing two different characteristics.

Last Sunday, we were invited to attend a children's party, a birthday of one of my inaanaks - Matthew Sera-Jose, son of Judith's close friends in their residency days in PGH. The party was held in a Shakey's branch in Pasig, so my whole family , together with the 2 yayas were there.

The place was packed with people - friends, children running around, clowns playing and waiters doing their usual stuff. Noise galore but fun galore as well.

Zia, as we have expected, remained silent most part of the party. She was not interested with the games, not looking with the clowns, and was with Jen, her yaya, most part of the party. Even when some of our friends are talking with her or getting her attention, she would not return the attention. Of course, during the Happy Birthday song, Zia again cried. Even when eating, she swallowed only 5 spoonfuls (of spaghetti, often her favorite food) then would not eat there again.

Enzo, on the other hand, was very excited all through out. He was always smiling to people, was very bubbly and did not cry even once. He was obviously having a good time, savoring the company of different people, different from his usual routine at home.

After the party, we proceeded to Bonifacio Highstreet, a new open-type mall in The Fort. There, Zia was more active. She was running around in the park, playing and obviously enjoying her stay there. While Enzo was quiet and eventually slept all through out our stay there.

Will these be their traits when they grow up? Will Zia be more of the outdoorsy type and not the party goer person? And Enzo be the opposite of her Ate Zia?

Or I'm just paranoid and worry much?

Anyway, last Sunday was fun, and that's the bottomline. Hopefully, we'll have more time like that together as a family.

36

2007-06-24T20:50:00.000+08:00

Yesterday I turned 36 years old.

When I was young, when I learn that a person is older than 30, I see them as old people. Folly of youth?

I don't feel old, sometimes. When I'm with my babies, I feel young, but when I'm carrying them too long and my back starts to ache, then that's the time I feel my age.

Zia is now 2 years old and Enzo is 5 months. When I reach 60, they will be 26 and 24 respectively. I was thinking a while back, will I be too old when their life starts? Can I still guide them well? Or will I be too weak then to lend a hand when they are in trouble?

I was calculating the age of Biboy and Tatay, and their age difference is quite the same as mine and Enzo. Looking back, Tatay did a great job raising Biboy, and they were able to do father and son stuff, so maybe me and Enzo will be alright.

What were the major changes since my last birthday?
1. Enzo came to my life! I became a father the second time around last January.
2. I'm taking a Masters degree in Health Informatics.
3. Biboy went home last March.
4. I started a blog. (2 blogs actually)
5. Eye Republic added a clinic in SLMC.
6. Another doctor joined OCP.
7. I was reinstated as Assistant to the Director in PGH.
8. I became a consultant of PGH.

At present:
- I'm still 5'7"
- at 160 lbs
- waist is still 34"
- work 6 days a week
- sleep roughly 6 hours at night

I turn 3 dozens of years yesterday, hope to review this blog entry one year from now.

I hope Google calendar reminds me next year, my memory is sometimes not as sharp anymore. :)

Visitors

2007-06-04T16:36:00.000+08:00

Yesterday, June 3 was a festive day in the Tahanan ng mga Perez. We were visited by Candee (Judith's cousin) and her family - Ogie (Zia's godfather), Gian and Sean. They came together with Joy (Judith's sister) and her family - Mek and Kyla.

Candee is a godmother of Enzo but was not able to attend his baptism last month because she was in Tacurong, Sultan Kudarat with her family. So as to bring her gifts, they visited us in our house in Las Pinas, and brought delicious food.

Of course, because of the 3 kids, the house was riotous! Children running, playing, jumping around, shouting, playing and laughing. It was fun. It made our home very lively, unlike our usual Sundays which are very silent and tranquil.

They were very charmed by Enzo who they described as very malikot for his age. Zia was also playing with the kids but not as actively as we would want her maybe because of her bowel problems.

When they left last night, the house was once again very peaceful, and we missed them immediately.
I was not able to take pictures so I can't post any for the blog.

June

2007-06-04T16:09:00.038+08:00

June na ulit, tag-ulan na naman at pasukan na naman.

Mag-eenroll na naman ako para sa aking Masteral course sa Health Informatics sa UP Manila. Pangalawang taon ko na sa kurso pero hindi ako masaya sa mga natatapos ko sa klase, hindi ko talaga mabigyan ng kaukulang oras para masulit ko yung mga klase namin, nauuwi tuloy na naghahabol ako palagi lalo na kapag may mga kailangang ipasa. Hay naku.

Pipilitin ko na sa darating na semestre ay mas maging maganda pa ang magiging takbo ng aking pag-aaral. Medyo mahirap, pero kaya naman.

Mas malamig na ang panahon dahil nag-uulan na, di na katulad ng nakaraang mga araw na saksakan ng init. Sa bahay naman namin, medyo tahimik naman at wala masyadong bago. May umalis lang na isang yaya (kay Enzo) pero may nahanap naman kaming kapalit (kaya lang mukhang di rin tatagal). Nakakaya naman ni Judith sa ngayon dahil mababait naman sina Enzo at Zia. Nakakapag-clinic pa rin naman siya. Ang Mommy naman ay naiiwan sa bahay kasama ang mga yaya kapag wala kaming dalawa ni Judith.

Namomoroblema lang kami ng konti kay Zia dahil hindi pa rin regular ang kanyang pagdumi. Minsan maayos pero minsan hirap na hirap siya kaya umiiyak habang dumudumi. Nakakaawa talaga pag nakikita naming nahihirapan siya, kadalasan tuloy pinipigil niya na dumumi siya. Sana nga malagpasan niya na to.

Pipilitin kong maging regular din na magsulat dito, baka nga mabawasan dahil medyo maraming parating na gawain. Tiis muna.

Buti na lang merong isang magandang paparating na mangyayari sa buwan na ito, ang aking kaarawan sa 23. Magiging 36 na ako!

Enzo starting to control his head movements

2007-05-30T13:25:00.001+08:00

Photo Album

2007-05-30T12:51:00.000+08:00

I have created a photo gallery in the internet, just click on the link section of this blog - Photo Album - and you will see more than 600 pictures. Enjoy!

Enzo laughing with Papa

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Mga apo

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Assorted pictures ng mga babies.

Enzo waiting for his baptism. Note his clothes and shoes. Excited!

Zia eagerly reaching her new Dora toy from her birthday.

Zia playing with the stroller with her new red Crocs shoes.

Kassie smilingly moves all the chairs she can get her hands on. Mas pala ngiti talaga siya kesa kay Zia.

Ang magka-batch na magpinsan na parehong cute habang nanonood ng TV.

Enzo and Zia's party

2007-05-15T11:58:00.000+08:00

More pictures from May 13 party. Most people were able to come because the next day was a holiday (Elections). Just click at the pictures to enlarge the view.

Baby Enzo's angel overlooking the festivities.

Mama and Enzo with Tita Nilds, Mek, Joy and Kyla

Mama, Papa and Baby Enzo with Andrea, Kim, Rains, Jotek, Tolits, Joy and Bebang

The kids getting their lootbags (stickers and toys)

The neighbors: the Moraleses, the Gelbases and the Quietas

Zia's 2nd birthday

2007-05-15T11:24:00.000+08:00

May 13 was a memorable day for the Tahanan ng mga Perez, aside from Enzo's baptism, it was also Zia's 2nd birthday! After the baptism, we all went home to eat. We had our house in Las Pinas decorated, put some tent, tables and chairs so that the place be more festive. With the help of the hired caterer (a friend of Mama Goody), every guest had a nice meal (roast pork, chicken, pasta, turon, pastries (brought by Tita Nilds) and cake (by Mama Goody). Of course, the lolo and lola from Canada and lolo from Quezon City pitched in to make the party more merrier. Ate Jen and Ate Laura made balloons, too.

Here's Zia with Mama and Papa (Dora is Zia's favorite cartoon character thus the cake)

Baby Zia with Mama Goody and Ate Jen.

The guests are about to sing the Happy Birthday song. Big mistake. We warned them don't sing, Zia hates that song...

So here's what happened after the song. Makulit kasi yung mga nagpapakanta eh. So hindi nahipan ang candles ni Zia, Mama na lang. Hay naku...

This is a rare shot of Zia with her ninang Joy (Zia doesn't go with her ninang Joy, always!)

Enzo baptism part 2

2007-05-15T10:30:00.000+08:00

Here are some more pictures from the church.

Here is the new Catholic, Baby Enzo, with Papa, Mama, Baby Zia and Father Lito. As usual, si Baby Zia ay sobrang hirap kunan ng picture. Ang gusto ay maglalakad sa church. Si Baby Enzo naman by this time, hindi na umiiyak. Mabait naman si Father Lito, very accomodating.

Here are the ninongs of Baby Enzo. From left: Dr. Rainier Covar, partner ni Papa sa Eye Republic Clinic; Jonathan Perez, uncle din siya ni Enzo; Dr. Kim Silos, barkada ni Mama and Papa, Pulmonologist naman siya sa Medical City; Dr. Lito Pulido, barkada rin ng Mama and Papa, Anesthesiologist naman sa Bataan (siya, kasama ang kanyang asawa na si Dr. Joy Pulido (Pediatrician) at ang kanilang dalawang kids ang pinakamalayo ang pinanggalingan - Hermosa, Bataan) .

Here is the only ninang who arrived: Dr. Lanie Sanchez, another barkada of Mama and Papa, who is a Pediatrician, shown here with her son Joaquin.

Here are all the ninongs and ninang - Jojo, Rains, Lanie, Tolits and Kim. Those who did not make it were: Ninong Awet, partner of Papa in Eye Republic but was out of the country, Ninangs Karen and Melissa are both in the States, Ninang Candy is in Mindanao and Ninang Glenda had an emergency in the hospital.

At ito na ang pinakamatinong group picture namin sa Church. From left: Dr. Happy de Guzman, another partner of Papa sa Eye Republic, Jojo's family (Lare and Alicia), Joy and Kyla, Rains, Tolits' family (Joy and kids Bebang and Bentong), Biboy and Zsazsa, Tolits.

Enzo's Baptism

2007-05-15T09:28:00.000+08:00

My favorite son, Lorenzo Cesar G. Perez, was baptized last Sunday in St. James the Great Parish in Alabang. The day was hot but we were so thankful that no rain came. Most of the ninongs were there and only one ninang arrived. Of course, my brothers Jojo, who is also one of the ninongs, and Jaypee were there. Some friends also arrived to grace the occasion.

As luck would have it, the ceremony became special since we were the only one there, at walang kasabay si Enzo na bininyagan.

Here's Enzo while waiting for the ceremony to start. Di lang halata pero naiinitan na yan.

Si Father Lito ang officiating priest, siyempre dahil kami lang ang nandun, sa altar mismo kami naka pwesto.

Baby Enzo with Mama, Papa and Ninong Jojo.

Yung veil na ginamit ni Zia sa baptism niya, yun din ang pinagamit namin kay Enzo. Medyo nag-alala lang kami dahil mas malaki si Enzo baka di magkasya, buti na lang tamang-tama lang. Medyo mainit nga lang kaya habang nasa ceremony, medyo umiiyak si Enzo.

Heto naman ang aming panganay na si Zia, kasama si Ate Alicia niya. Tuwang tuwa din si Zia sa loob ng church dahil maluwag, marami siyang nalalakaran, natatakbuhan at nagagapangan.

Tatay

2007-05-04T13:14:00.000+08:00

Cesar S. Perez

Policeman (retired colonel), aide-de-camp, tissue paper salesman, newspaper vendor, racetrack program vendor, driver, foreman, swimmer, cook, director, music-lover, FPJ fanatic, car-enthusiast, friend, grandfather, husband and most of all, our loving father.

Happy 61st Birthday, Tatay!

Los Banos pics last batch

2007-04-23T14:35:00.000+08:00

Noli and Jing Castro

Biboy and Zsazsa

Bado and Lare

me and judith

The singing Perezes (si Jay lang ang kulang)

Los Banos pics 4

2007-04-23T14:15:00.000+08:00

Judith, me and all the grandchildren here in Pinas

Papa and Enzo enjoying the swim

Perez family underwater, with 3 sirenas at the back

3 big boys and 2 small girls

Group picture ulit bago umuwi (believe me, ito na ulit ang pinaka maayos). Yun nga lang si Kleng lang naka pose ng maganda.

Los Banos Pics 3

2007-04-23T12:13:00.000+08:00

Mga Bata Reyes

Biboy and Zsazsa

Noli and Kassie doing karaoke

Mga oldies singing while the kids are swimming and sleeping

Karaoke galore, P500 din ang gamit diyan for the whole day kaya talagang sinulit namin

Los Banos 2

2007-04-23T11:43:00.000+08:00

Pagkatapos niyang mag-karaoke, sumama na rin sa pool si Judith, kasama si Zia, Kurt at Alicia. Nasa likod naman ang malalaking bata.

Isa na ito sa matinong group picture, lahat kasi magulo at malikot. Tingnan niyo yung nasa likod (si Klaire), mag-isa siya dun, nakasalbabida pero takbo ng takbo sa paligid ng pool. Bait no?

Kainan na, naghanda si Judith ng liyempo at tilapia na inihaw ni Noli, bumili naman si Bado ng lechon manok, gumawa si Noli ng talong salad, ayos! Nasa picture si Lare, Jing, Noli, Biboy (natakpan ko) at Zsazsa.

Umahon na rin ang mga bata pagkatapos lumangoy ng 3 oras, nasa picture sina Biboy, Kurt, Lare, Bado at Alicia. Nandun sa likod nila yung pool. Matutuwa si Nanay, ginagamit pa namin yung lalagyan niya ng paper plates.

Kabilang angle naman, nadagdag sa picture si Jing at si Judith, makikita naman sa likod yung billiard table.

Los Banos Pics

2007-04-23T09:54:00.000+08:00

The Perez family rented a private pool in Los Banos yesterday for a summer outing. The place is located inside a subdivision where houses are very large and practically new. The place is owned by some doctors based in Calamba, which Judith got hold on to so we got it for a special price (for 12 hours usage). The place has a large cold pool and a small hot pool. It also has 4 air-conditioned rooms, 4 shower cubicles, large dining area, with refrigerator, cold water dispenser, a "ihawan area", a billiard table and a karaoke machine. Everybody, especially the kids enjoyed.

If you want a larger view, just click the picture.

After 2 minutes of arrival, nasa loob na ng pool (the large cold pool) ang mga bata (kasama si Biboy), si Enzo antok pa (karga ni Yaya Lora).

Nasa loob ng pool: me, Zia, Noli, Jing, Kurt (natakpan), Kleng, Kassie, Zsazsa at Alicia

Zia and Papa

Nadagdag na si picture si Biboy at si Lare. Makikita sa background yung mga kotse namin na nasa loob ng compound.

Yung mga wala sa picture, either nagkakaraoke or nag-aayos ng pagkain.

Swimming videos

2007-04-23T09:07:00.000+08:00

Enjoy these Los Banos videos.

Heto ang mga sabik sa swimming...

Panoorin niyo yung kakaibang mukha ni Zia pag nababasa siya...

Si Enzo, bago mag-swimming, excited pang ngumingiti sa Papa...

Heto na si Enzo sa kanyang second swimming at first hotspring bath...

Enzo on Papa's lap

2007-04-19T16:01:00.000+08:00

Enzo enjoying quality time with his Papa

Summer Heat

2007-04-19T15:00:00.000+08:00

Pambihira ang init ngayon dito sa Metro Manila! Masakit sa balat kapag nasa labas ka, at pag nasa loob ka naman at walang air-con, papawisan ka ng todo.

Sa bahay nga, hirap matulog si Enzo lalo na sa hapon dahil talagang pawis na pawis. Pinabubukas na nga namin ang air-con para makatulog ng maluwag sa hapon. Mana kasi sa parehong lolo niya na pawisin, kaya minsan kahit nasa air-con na, pinapawisan pa rin!

Si Zia naman ganun din, kahit naka tapat na ang electric fan sa kanya pag natutulog, pawis na pawis pa rin, pero itong panganay namin kahit mainit walang problema sa pagtulog.

Buti na lang, magsu-swimming kami sa linggo kasama ang mga kapatid ko, sa Los Banos sa Laguna, nakakita si Judith ng isang private pool at dun kami the whole day. Excited na nga kami lahat, maglalagay na lang ako ng litrato ulit dito sa blog.

Heto si Enzo, pa macho effect dahil sa init.

Enzo in a good mood

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Busog kasi kaya ngiti ng ngiti.

Enzo Video

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Click the videos to view them.

Zia and Papa playing

2007-04-10T11:57:00.000+08:00

Lucena 2

2007-04-10T09:38:00.000+08:00

Additional pics from the Lucena trip:

Zia and Papa under a fountain.

Zia and Papa with Mommy Goody and Ate Kyla.

Zia floating away from Papa.

Zia playing with Ninang Joy under the fountain.

Siyempre after swimming, TULOG! Note: Zia would always go beside Enzo when they are in bed to kiss him endlessly with gigil.

Lucena

2007-04-10T09:09:00.000+08:00

Last weekend, our small family together with Judith's relatives went to Lucena, in Ouan Worth's Farm and Resort. The resort is owned by the family of our friend Dr. Cha Sarmiento-Alba. Enzo had his first swimming, wearing the trunks his Lolo gave from Canada. Zia as usual loved the pool. She stayed a long time in the pool just like last year when we were in Batangas.
You can click on the pictures if you want them to be enlarged.

Here's our cute family about to swim.

Here's Enzo's first dip in a pool. Note the grin on his face.

Zia dipping in the pool, di talaga siya takot sa tubig, lakad lang ng lakad. Kahit makainom ng tubig, ok lang. Basta hawak niya yang mga toys niya (isang rubber piece from a mat at isang plastic ball), pag kinuha yan sa kanya, iyakan galore.

We are sharing the pool with Joy (Judith's sister and Zia's ninang), Kyla (Joy's daughter), Ogie (Judith's cousin-in-law and Zia's ninong), Candy (Judith's cousin) and their sons Gian and Sean.

Papa and Enzo, with Candy and Sean at the background.

Magkapatid

2007-03-21T12:02:00.000+08:00

Heto pa ang patunay na talagang magkapatid silang dalawa, si Zia yung sa taas (kinunan July 2005), si Enzo yung sa baba (eto naman March 2007). Pati yung kumot pareho.

March pics

2007-03-21T11:20:00.000+08:00

Here are my promised pictures: set of pictures of Enzo at 2 months old, Zia at 1 year and 10 months with Judith, and with Biboy plus the pasalubongs from Canada.

Zia and Enzo at 2 months

2007-03-20T07:45:00.000+08:00

Top photo is Enzo, the bottom one is Zia. Medyo hawig sila ano?

Mas mataba lang ng konti si Enzo kumpara kay Zia, at mas bilog ang mata ni Zia kesa kay Enzo

Deadlines

2007-03-15T15:38:00.000+08:00

This week and the coming two are quite busy for me (thus the trickling posts here). I am finishing some requirements for this semester for my Masteral (Master of Science in health informatics) studies. I have 4 courses that need some reports. Hopefully I can finish them all, and pass them all.

At home, Enzo is growing fast, lalo na siyang tumataba. Kapag karga namin siya, nagsisimula na siyang magkaroon ng head control. Si Zia naman ay medyo nagiging normal na ang bowel movement. Sana magtuloy-tuloy na nga, although nagla-laxative pa rin kami sa kanya. Yun nga lang medyo nagsisimula nang maging madalas ang tantrums niya. kapag may gusto siyang gamit o gawin, idinadaan na sa fake na iyak, minsan naglulupasay pa sa sahig! Buti na lang cute pa rin.

Pati yung mga helpers namin - si Jen at Lora - ay very dependable na, so kahit wala kami sa bahay medyo kampante kami. Pati si Mommy ay di na masyado napapagod kakaalaga sa mga apo niya.

Judith has resumed full time her clinic schedule. Pero pagdating sa bahay, full time nanay pa rin siya.

Next posts, may mga pictures na siguro.

Biboy in LP

2007-03-12T14:32:00.000+08:00

I have been amiss for the last week to update the blog. Some developments:
Jaypee has arrived last Wednesday, and now at home in Las Pinas. We received some pasalubong from Canada: Zia and Enzo got shoes, clothes and some toys plus an electronic toothbrush from Tatay, Judith received some make-up from Jay, and I got an iPod shuffle from tatay and some samurai dvds from Jaypee, chocolates are also running a plenty.

Jojo, Lare and Alicia spent their weekend in Las Pinas kaya medyo masaya sa bahay. Daming kwento si Jaypee about Canada, yun nga lang, malaki ang itinaba niya.

I'll post some pictures the next time.

Biboy

2007-03-04T13:08:00.000+08:00

My brother JP or Biboy will be arriving from Canada this Wednesday night to have his vacation. It will be the first time that he will be back since he, tatay and nanay migrated to Canada last Nov 2005. Excited na kami. Two months daw siya mag stay pa dito.

This picture below was taken at home in Las Pinas before they left for Canada. The girl in the picture is Zsazsa.

Updates

2007-02-28T13:36:00.000+08:00

Judith has started holding clinic again. She has taught our helpers how to take care of Zia and Enzo while the two of us are not home. Mommy is there to help them out.

Enzo's appetite is increasing. Judith's stock of pumped breast milk always runs out, and to her frustration, she has started formula milk as an adjunct. We visited Dra. Ces Alinea, our pediatrician, and Enzo has increased his weight from 2.8 to 4.1 kgs after only a month. Yun nga lang, madami siyang rashes sa face niya, so may mga ointment kaming pinapapahid si Ces para mas maging smooth ulit ang face niya.

Si Zia naman parehas lang ang weight niya since last month. Kasi nga constipated pa din. This alarms Ces for her so we just have to continue more stool softeners and laxatives. Some wound may also be present so we were advised to keep it clean to ward off possible infection. No immediate work-up for her at the mean time, so sana nga mag improve ang bowel movement niya.

Both babies had their scheduled vaccines given to them, as well. Kaya iyakan galore sila sa clinic, pero sandali lang, nung nahimasmasan na, smile na ulit silang dalawa.

Mirror image

2007-02-22T17:19:00.000+08:00

Top picture is with Enzo, bottom pic is with Zia.

Missing my kids

2007-02-21T10:32:00.000+08:00

I'm on an overnight seminar here in Antipolo, and I'm terribly missing my kids and my wife. Although the place is very cozy, it's quite empty because I don't have my family here. I really can't imagine parents living far from their families, because even for a night, I can't even sleep peacefully.
Buti na lang patapos na ang seminar at makikita ko na ang family ko mamaya.

Enzo at 1 month

2007-02-20T10:00:00.001+08:00

Enzo just celebrated his one month old anniversary, here are some pics. Mas tumataba na siya, pero mabait pa rin dahil di masyado pinapagod si Judith sa gabi.

Tatay

2007-02-15T18:18:00.000+08:00

Maraming nagsasabi at nakakapuna na kamukha daw ng tatay ko si Enzo, kasama na ako dun. Minsan nga pag kinakarga ko si Enzo, parang maliit na version ni Tatay ang karga ko. Sige nga, kayo ang humusga.

Heto si Enzo, at yung picture dun sa baba, nandun naman si Tatay, karga si Zia at katabi si Nanay.

Nanay

2007-02-14T09:34:00.000+08:00

It's my Nanay's birthday on Feb 13, she's 56 now. I can't be with her since she's in Canada with Tatay. I miss her and I know that she also misses all her apos here in Pinas.

This picture was taken during Zia's baptism luncheon held in our home in Las Pinas last August of 2005. From left: Mommy Goody, Nanay carrying Zia and Judith.

Madonna and Child(ren)

2007-02-12T09:58:00.000+08:00

Judith is one tremendous mother for Zia and Enzo. Since giving birth to them, she's a very hands on mother, most of the time very protective, even from me. I could never imagine how I could raise a child if Judith is not here with me.

Breastfeeding is one aspect she is very serious about. She makes it a point that both Zia and Enzo be breastfed as long as possible, as this is her mantra for her patients as well. However, everytime I see her breastfeed Zia then and Enzo now, it's one gruelling experience. It's quite painful and at the same time very fulfilling according to her.

Hay, buti na lang walang gatas ang mga lalaki...

This is Judith with Enzo now, and below, with Zia then.

On Papa's Lap

2007-02-10T14:33:00.000+08:00

Both of my kids love my lap. They would relax their baby bodies on my lap, and that's usually my quality time with them. I play with them, exercise their limbs, and usually I get their weewee and poopoo after.

Here's Enzo at 2 weeks of age.

And here's Zia at nearly 1 month of age

Bad days for Zia 2

2007-02-07T22:55:00.000+08:00

Zia has not really gotten over her constipation. This morning when I was about to go to work, she began to sob and cry in pain again while straining. That was the scene lingering on my mind when I was at the clinic.

After a few hours, Judith texted me saying that Zia has finally was able to void. Hay salamat, I knew then that Zia will have a better day.

Imagine the great news I received "Nakatae na si Zia". Ganda no?

Hotel stay

2007-02-07T00:07:00.000+08:00

The Philippine Glaucoma Society had its Strategic Planning Workshop last Friday until Sunday, held at the Edsa Shangri-La Hotel. All members were billeted, so after the workshop proper last Saturday, I fetched my family and we stayed at the hotel. Zia went swimming with me and Enzo had a change of scenery...

Bad days for Zia

2007-02-06T23:55:00.000+08:00

Since Sunday, Zia is constipated! She's having difficulty tremendously that she's been crying every time it's "poo poo time"
And me and Judith are so helpless!
The worst thing a parent can endure is to see his/her child cry in pain! Zia is not that child who cries a lot, but now she's been crying and obviously in pain. What she does right now is to hold her poo poo so that she won't feel the strain and the pain. Of course it will not work, so after a few minutes she'll cuddle me or Judith and cry in pain!
The whole afternoon of Sunday, she's been crying until night time. She eventually passed her poo poo Monday early morning at about 2AM and 5AM. I did not report for work Monday morning just to be with her. Agony with a capital A!

Ate Zia

2007-02-06T21:03:00.000+08:00

Since the first time that Zia saw Enzo, she has this habit of kissing him. It is one of the best scene a parent can watch. Everyday, Zia kisses Enzo, on the head, on the mouth, on the cheeks, on the nose, sometimes she even licks Enzo with her tongue! When she wakes up, she looks for Enzo beside her and kisses him. Nanggigigil pa nga minsan kaya inaalalayan namin. Hopefully this kissing activity would be present until they grow up...

The week that was

2007-02-06T20:39:00.000+08:00

It's been a week since my last post so I have to catch up.
Work was OK both in PGH and in Eye Republic. Actually, more than OK kaya wala akong time magsulat dito, pagdating naman sa bahay, laro kami ng mga kids kaya no time for the blog.
Enzo and Zia had her vaccines last Monday c/o Dr. Ces. Zia did not cry, and was enjoying the company of Ces (for a change!) She seems to always not enjoy her visit with Ces but not that night. Enzo of course cried loudly as expected.

Tuesday and Wednesday were just blurs. Just passed very fast.
I spent most of Thursday at Borough Clinic where I did a surgery, went back to Eye republic then went home. Judith as usual is doing excellent Mama's work on both babies...